Hello is anyone out there?

HI, my name is Jordi, i have been on this site trying to make new friends that are into this this lifestyle. My problem is that I am not even getting a "hello" back. I feel that it's rude when someone takes the time to send a message of "hello" and can't even get a hello back. It becomes hurtful & makes me feel like giving up! But I am not ready to give up yet. To the few that answered even if it was not the answer is wanted "Thank you" Dose anyone have any suggestions for me?