4 years ago. June 20, 2019 at 3:40 AM
Well i didnt find anyone get to share my live with . But i do go to munches and made friends.
But in bdsm itself i didnt really go forward. But patience gets rewarded they say
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Hello is anyone out there?
HI, my name is Jordi, i have been on this site trying to make new friends that are into this this lifestyle. My problem is that I am not even getting a "hello" back. I feel that it's rude when someone takes the time to send a message of "hello" and can't even get a hello back. It becomes hurtful & makes me feel like giving up! But I am not ready to give up yet. To the few that answered even if it was not the answer is wanted "Thank you" Dose anyone have any suggestions for me?
Angel Wings(sub female)
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It may havs not been the outcome you expected, but just going and making friends is moving forward.
4 years ago
Jordi96(switch male){Searching}
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That is true and im glad. just posting how it goes afther some years
4 years ago
dollMaker(dom male)
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Well here since 2017, three short blogs, no forum activity and a very minimal profile. You are not going to like what I am going to say, but I say it because you need to hear it. Who are you? I do not know who you are, there is nothing much here to tell me anything much about you, and as such you are invisible. I suspect part of your lack of success is because you are invisible, and have not been noticed.
You need to take part, blog more and not woe is me I cant find anyone blogs ( sorry but they arent that attractive) write erotica, write about your interests, write about your experiences, write about your desires, write to tell those who might be interested why they should approach you. You need to sell yourself, you need to get noticed. Ask questions in the forums, offer thoughts, if you can take part in the chat room do so.
Now it could be you arent interested in finding anyone on here, fair enough but what are you doing in the physical world to not be invisible? You need to be noticed, need to be seen, to be approached. Be yourself, be nice, kind, dont be rude or pushy or too thirsty. Go to events, go to workshops to educate yourself and social things such as munches. Use the time wisely to learn more about BDSM, the culture, history, social aspects, the activities, the how to do aspects, how to be safe.
I dont say any of this to be nasty to you, but to try and get you going towards being seen, and being noticed, and that will help younfind or be found.
I wish you well with your search, but you need to up your game, and doing so on here is as good a place to start as any.
You need to take part, blog more and not woe is me I cant find anyone blogs ( sorry but they arent that attractive) write erotica, write about your interests, write about your experiences, write about your desires, write to tell those who might be interested why they should approach you. You need to sell yourself, you need to get noticed. Ask questions in the forums, offer thoughts, if you can take part in the chat room do so.
Now it could be you arent interested in finding anyone on here, fair enough but what are you doing in the physical world to not be invisible? You need to be noticed, need to be seen, to be approached. Be yourself, be nice, kind, dont be rude or pushy or too thirsty. Go to events, go to workshops to educate yourself and social things such as munches. Use the time wisely to learn more about BDSM, the culture, history, social aspects, the activities, the how to do aspects, how to be safe.
I dont say any of this to be nasty to you, but to try and get you going towards being seen, and being noticed, and that will help younfind or be found.
I wish you well with your search, but you need to up your game, and doing so on here is as good a place to start as any.
4 years ago
Jordi96(switch male){Searching}
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I understand what You mean and those are valid points and they can help people yes and i will try to do so . And it wont be easy but i should get out of my Shell more . Thank you for your post
4 years ago
Angel Wings(sub female)
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I looked at your blogs last night because I also never heard of you before. I noticed I clicked on a blog that was a year old. I agree with DM come and get to know us in the Cage. Get your name out with blogs, forum, comments and chat. Yes, time to get out of your shell. See you around and good luck.
4 years ago