So like i said before while i was learning what kind of Dom id like to try and be i was also researching kinks. Some where easy to learn about. Like anal and how much someone should clean beforehand. Or pet play and what's the limit between that and degrading them as an animal. Which I learned isn't as fine of a line as I thought.
When i roleplayed I also tried to put this knowledge into action when i could. Now obviously I wasn't roleplaying the whole cleaning process before anal. But I did order them to clean themselves in prep for it. For the most part it people enjoyed the attention to detail. I was even stopped a few times and asked why I did something the way I did. So some subs even wanted to learn and my RP skills improved a lot. Though I wish I could say my Dom skills improved as well.
I wanted to learn as much as I could about the various kinks. So that way i can say why i do not like it. So instead of just saying " cause it smells' when asked why I don't like fecal play (which never comes up thankfully) I just say " not only is the clean up annoying as hell it also has a high risk of several infections that could be harmful to you in the long term. Also it smells"
I also learned about some kinks I'm not sure i should mention. They came up surprisingly often in roleplays so i learned what i could about them. Doing my due diligence and all that good stuff. Not to mention i was getting most of my online subs from omegle. And people on omegle are just weird. I should know...im one of them.
Now correct me if i am wrong. But i learned that public, done right, is one of the harder kinks to actually do. Mostly cause of the research involved. Sure you can just go to an adult theater where nobody would really care. But that's too easy and boring. Id rather have more risk involved. I found out that the Dom, with the subs help, stakes out parks, bathrooms, movie theaters. Trying to find where is the best spot to play in public with a minimum risk of getting caught. The Dom keeps track of how many people are in a park each day or night, Which movie tanked in the theaters so would probably have no one seeing it, Or which restaurants have a reputation for people screwing in the bathroom. Looking at you McDonalds...
With my newfound knowledge i once more got a sub from omegle. We discussed terms, rules, limits (which she understood i would push the soft limits) and so on. I'm proud to say it lasted about 4 months before she found a BF and asked to leave to be with him. At the time I was in no position to try and bring her to me or take care of her so i gave my consent. Got an invite to the wedding a few months after. I skyped in to watch and it was nice. I noticed she had a collar on and knew he had accepted her just like she submitted to him. Idk how they are doing now.
The next few subs left me after a few weeks cause they wanted a rougher Dom, or someone like the guy from 50 shades as I was once told. The one that I remember the most I met soon after that. And i will never forget the name Rose knight...
