I get a lot of compliments and critiques about my profile, contract, and blog. I love the compliments and enjoy the debate over my critique. Now since I posted my ad I have received several offers and had several conversations with men who want to either be my sub or Dominate me.
Now I'm polite to all and hear them out or tell them off. But I get rather frustrated that I gave this very detailed description of what I want and yet I get terribly vague offers. Or worse, I get answers they think I want to hear. If I ask, "What are you willing to do for me?" and the answer I get is "Whatever you say. Whatever you want." Seriously, I already said what I wanted. How are you unique? What makes you worth my time? 90% of all offers revolve around sex. Boys, please! If you paid attention you would know that I am not just about the sex. If that's all you are about you are a waste of time. My vibrator is great in bed! You need to know what you like or want, or if you're a newbie at least be willing to talk about things.
I know that some men can't communicate and some communicate way too much! Even though I want a quick turn around on starting a relationship, talking about moving a relationship forward and making plans is not the same thing as offering to move in next week. Talking about what you want in a relationship or marriage is not the same thing as proposing in an email. My profile, contract, and blog do not cover everything about me. I'm not into online roleplay.
Don't tell me what you think I want to hear. Tell me the truth or go away.