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Dominating From The Heart

My journey to finding the most perfect Domme/sub love life.
4 years ago. October 29, 2020 at 3:23 AM

I get a lot of compliments and critiques about my profile, contract, and blog. I love the compliments and enjoy the debate over my critique. Now since I posted my ad I have received several offers and had several conversations with men who want to either be my sub or Dominate me. 

 

Now I'm polite to all and hear them out or tell them off. But I get rather frustrated that I gave this very detailed description of what I want and yet I get terribly vague offers. Or worse, I get answers they think I want to hear. If I ask, "What are you willing to do for me?" and the answer I get is "Whatever you say. Whatever you want." Seriously, I already said what I wanted. How are you unique? What makes you worth my time? 90% of all offers revolve around sex. Boys, please! If you paid attention you would know that I am not just about the sex. If that's all you are about you are a waste of time. My vibrator is great in bed! You need to know what you like or want, or if you're a newbie at least be willing to talk about things.

 

I know that some men can't communicate and some communicate way too much! Even though I want a quick turn around on starting a relationship, talking about moving a relationship forward and making plans is not the same thing as offering to move in next week. Talking about what you want in a relationship or marriage is not the same thing as proposing in an email. My profile, contract, and blog do not cover everything about me. I'm not into online roleplay.

 

Don't tell me what you think I want to hear. Tell me the truth or go away.

 

 

 

 

Johnny slave sub​(sub male){I'd most w} - Telling you what they THINK you want to know, is not only responding dishonestly, but a failing waste of time. There has to be a desire to know you and be known by you...and in no way...sexually alone. There is much more to the Woman you are, as well as much more to the reality of love. How could any male come to be your sub, let alone a marital partner...if he can't fully read and learn to understand all that you so carefully and thoughtfully wrote within your profile? It's very clear in your profile that sex isn't the be all thing that you want. Yes part...but there is so much more. You ask...What are you willing to do for me? When you read...whatever you want! My Gosh..it's like they completely ignored your in depth list. They could at least go through the list and share with you...what they'd be good at and things that they'd need further learning or training on. Your list provides them with a sort of guide to what would become their way of life with you. Some of the things you list. ..might not even be understood by them, so they can ask your explanation. There are things about you...that are not covered in your profile. Surely...they'd have questions about you. ..that would allow them to better know you. The better they'd know you...the more real their love would be...if they came to love. As for your contract. ..you openly state it's at 10 pages long. That's now, but as you say, it will most likely become longer. If they have any problems with the idea of signing a 10 page contract, then they would surely dislike a 12 or 15 page or so one. In that case...why do they even bother to ask for your consideration? You are obviously a very loving true authoritative and controlling Dominant woman. What you need is a truly loving, serving, obedient, humble submissive male. Seems like...some subs who have contacted you...aren't true to you or to themselves.
4 years ago

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