Dominating From The Heart

My journey to finding the most perfect Domme/sub love life.

Long time no hear

2 years ago. August 16, 2021 at 2:32 AM

So I haven't been on here in a while to post. Some of you are aware why. I am not prepared to go into why just yet, but at some point, I do intend to explain my craziest year ever!

In the meantime, I have a debate that I need input on. Here is my personal belief in speaking with a potential sub, when negotiating/developing the terms of the relationship, the Dominant can be flexible in what they will or will not do without regards to kinks the sub likes but if a Dominant has certain requirements or needs and the sub is not into those kinks or rules, 100% it's done.

Currently, I have a Dom friend who says that a Dominant should be willing to flex more since there aren't as many in the community as in vanilla land. Compromise should be from both sides.

I see his point of view for those who are only sexually dominant, but not if you're 24/7.

Thoughts?

SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Everyone has needs, wants, and desires. In my view, wants and desires have room to be flexible but not so a need. I suppose it boils down to WHY you have the need. So, in relation to your minimum limit of expectation, WHY is it required? Figure out that answer and you figure out if it's a true need or closer to a want/desire.

2 years ago

Jack in the box -
I believe there has to be compromise from both sides - it is inherently different from the submissive side because your deepest desire IS to please, but it is also the Dominants responsibility to not let their submissive "sacrifice".
If the two of you just arent meshing well, time will make it clear.
When both of your desires match, thats bliss, right?
Especially a 24/7 dynamic.

Just my buck 29

Good to see you back Miss. ☺⚘

2 years ago

MichaelSub(sub male){Looking } - As a sub I believe that to properly submit and serve the owner/dominant he must be willing to service her fully. This is her kinks, her wants, her will. Eventually the comprised area will come to a head or will be a blocker. Better to say it’s a no go early and move on before people get invested and eventually hurt.

2 years ago

Bondsbondsman(sub male) - The sub must fulfill the will of the Dom, there is no other way.

10 months ago

SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} - I would disagree. There are MANY ways in which dynamics can function.

10 months ago

Bondsbondsman(sub male) - If the house is flexible, I will manipulate it from below. There is such a film "Duke of Burgundy" 2014. What comes first, desire or need?

10 months ago

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bestofTN​(dom female){Miss}

Dominating From The Heart

Long time no hear

bestofTN(dom female){Miss}