TieHardTwo

We are actually pretty old school in lots of ways - having perfectly serviceable dicks to fuck with, hands to play with subs and other subs to suck whatever we want them to there is not really much need for machine play. That said of course we do it and some subs get really turned on by being fucked/milked and stimulated by machines. We use an adjustable (up, sideways and detachable like a drill) fuck machine, a tremblr and venus milking machines, a sybian (yes they do work well on boys) and various vibro (I will do a separate blog on electro at some point - which is not such a big thing for us).

I suppose the point about machines is that they just won't stop, they don't get tired or bored and will just keep going no matter what. This is good for what I call a timer challenge. Get the sub in whatever position you want - if using a fuck machine and a milker might I recommend a sit sling. Be careful lowering them to impale on the fuck machine. If just one of you get the sub to pull up on bars above their head and treat the impaling as a predicament test. They can control their own descent but of course cannot hold their weight forever so will have to lower themselves eventually. If two of you are Domming using straps is best - make sure to control the straps with both hands. Release the clasp with left and manage the lowering with right is my recommendation. It is a bit like abseiling - you will learn control. Be careful and take your time. However you do it once you have your sub hanging in the air and nicely impaled on your fuck machine attach your milker. I get this started and ask them how long they think they can last. Once we agree a time I show them a cooking timer which I set in front of them. No cheating here. Once the timer is set that is how long the machines stay on for. If they can't keep their shit together and cum before the time is up then tough. It stays on. If they don't cum - tough - time is up and their balls just have to stay full. Of course once the timer is going then I start to adjust the controls, increasing pace, suction, intensity etc.My goal is to get them to lose it and shoot their load with about a minute or so left on the clock - just enough to give them a taste of post orgasm torment.

It is possible with some subs to extract multiple loads - make sure they have agreed in advance because it is tough on them. Once they cum the milker needs to be at max speed for about 30 seconds post orgasm before reducing it right down and slowly building again. One very impressive sub we played with managed to cum 3 times in quick succession no break. It was total torment but he loved it - afterwards!!

Another nice variant on machine play is to tease a tied sub on a bondage board or in a sleepsack by suspending a vibro just within reach of the tip of their cock. They will have to work hard to keep in contact but keep still enough to get the stimulation. Of course letting them finish is entirely up to the Dom(me).

Being the kind of healthy, wholesome kinksters next door that we are, we obviously promote fresh air and outdoor activity for our subs. More specifically outdoor sex and bondage of course. I have always been turned on by outdoor sex and nudity. It is the feeling of air on the skin or the extra vulnerability for the sub when they are exposed outdoors. We also receive many messages from subs with the same fantasy. It is one of our popular requests - (usually goes with kidnap fantasies). Truth be told it is often about the fear of being caught.

We are very lucky at our country place to live on a very remote lane with an enclosed garden but one which also has views onto open fields. (One of our priorities when house hunting was 'how kinky can we be on our land and run virtually zero risk of being caught?'). Of course subs that have been driven around for a bit blindfold have absolutely no idea that they are in our back garden as opposed to anywhere else. To date we have been very thorough and put great care into giving subs the feeling of exposure and risk while taking maximum care to protect the public. We check the places in our garden carefully, consider the site lines, check for dog walkers and ramblers nearby. We also have a ready to throw over blanket just in case the nearly impossible happens. It is not for everyone but those that love it - really love it - and we have developed some very handy 'sculptures' in the garden to give them this experience. Some of these we have placed carefully so as to give the best sense of the country around us as another great joy of kink outdoors is that the pictures are often very beautiful too - but I'll let you be the judge of that.

We play in two locations, central London and a place in the country (which is still just in tier 1 restrictions til Monday). London is great for short and sweet scenes (by which I mean 1 to 2 hours) but if subs want longer then we encourage them up to the country where we have more space and more possibilities. Those brave enough to take the challenge and come for a 24 hour stay are given a choice - do they want a number of short intense scenes with full breaks or would they like the 24 hour sex prisoner experience? Gotta love the subs who chose the latter!

To be clear we don't do a 24 hours full on intense scene. If you are crazy enough to want 20 (or more - we have heard of 36) hours in a sleepsack then Master Dave is the Dom for you and we suggest you visit his castle in France (I know right - a fucking castle - he has even been known to send limousines to pick subs up from the air port!) but the wait to see him is normally phenomenally huge. Anyway, we will still do a number of intense set piece scenes during a 24 hour visit but with lighter touch 'bondage breaks' in between, things like: a little sleepy cage time, a nap on the bondage board and of course light touch bed time bondage for sleeping in (subs in any kind of bondage never sleep alone - but that is handy for a bit of amicable bed time fucking too). As well as the bound breaks we will do full control for those that want it, feeding and washing mainly. Personally I find washing blindfold subs a very subtle and erotic form of control - of course this can be the nice form in a warm bath or outside with a bucket and hose (this wakes them up in the morning pretty quickly). Always naked, always at least partly restricted, always controlled and then a series of intense scenes.

For a 24 hour experience the important trick is to pace the intensity and know when to call the breaks. We expect a lot of cum out of our subs when they are sex prisoners, the first one or two are easy - they will be super excited and have been locked or on a cum ban before we meet. (So excited in fact that occasionally they lose it and cum in the car while we are picking them up from the station - always makes me laugh. To be fair though as you can see from the pics getting a lift from us is not exactly like your normal uber. From one of the local train stations we give subs directions and within a few minutes walk they are in a wood where we can park up discretely). Anyway after the first couple of loads they will find it harder so we increase the stimulation and intensity to keep pushing them to get hornier. This means after the first scene (we always start with something big - shock and awe after all) we take the pace down and then gradually ramp up the scenes until they feel they have no more to give while we try and surprise them with more experiences. A personal triumph is when they are completely empty and cumming air. Our record was 12 cums from one sub in 24 hours - but to be fair him and our second place of 10 are outliers. Ironically I normally cheat and hold back from cumming myself - at least on the first day - but it means they can get fucked multiple times - I am not as young as I was haha.

Sometime about 12 - 16 hours in (so usually on the second day) the magic can really start to happen. The sub has completely relaxed and surrendered to the experience. They are very present in the moment and rooted in their immediate sensations, they have forgotten the outside world and fully awake to the sensations in their bodies and these bodies are completely ours to control. When it really works we see them going into this amazing euphoria. These are the peaks. Totally draining on both sub and Doms but producing some of the most ecstatic and amazing experiences. Well worth the effort!

We were wandering around Darklands with our alpha and his pack in February this year (before the world got shut down and all the events cancelled) and were lucky enough to run in Taco D Smit - the kink and fetish photographer - who did us a family portrait. I love it (not least because i managed to stand and the back and hide my face - I don't really like having portraits done - he did notice and make me stand where I was visible - but I don't like that one so much). But it made me think do other kink families have family shots? I'd love to see some. .... I'll show you mine if you show me yours  ;)

Among gay Doms on the London scene pup is quite divisive - there are those that love 'em and those that really hate 'em. I have to admit I started as the latter and then got converted to the pup side by our now alpha about 2 years ago.

The main thing I have come to appreciate about pups as subs is the totally different dynamic they can bring to a scene. Pups are fun, pups are playful, pups can be cheeky which can all add a whole lot of new pleasures. Pups are also cute and adorable, you can love them and pet them and play with them as well.  Our alpha knows he is not allowed on the sofa (though he also knows if he is very cute he can wriggle his way on with us and get away with it). Of course this means the moment our backs are turned the sofa is the first place he wants to be. He also loves to steal my boxer shorts when he can. It is both very funny and very sweet when about to get dressed after a sex session I start looking for my underwear and find the pup has stolen them and is now running naked round the garden with them on his head (seriously - or he hides them in his basket and I have to retrieve them). Of course then the game is that he doesn't want to give them back so we end up playing tug of war with them. This is just one of the games we can play with all of his toys - his favorites being Tig Tig his fluffy tiger, his squeaky pig toy called Sausages and his rope bone. Watching pups play with their toys (or joining in) is a ridiculous amount of fun and completely unexpectedly I found it turns me on like crazy. Last summer we went to the Doggy Weekender in Manchester. One of the highlights for me was going to a club on three floors and in the basement the entire dance floor had been covered in soft padded matting and covered with pup toys. There was the most almighty pup mosh going on. Loads of pups all wrestling after toys and playing with each other is an amazing spectacle to behold. (I was also quite proud of how alpha our pup was and dominating the other pups - truth be told).

When a sub is in pup space they are totally engrossed in the present moment, totally focused on their surroundings and their handler. It is such a release from all the normal anxiety and stress of the world -  for both the pup and the handler. Of course they are very easily distracted and more often than not on a constant quest for pupper treats (we use frozen chocolate buttons - but many pups have different treats they prefer - one once messaged me "I am a total slut for gummi bears" - how's that for a cheap date!). You can train pups, teach them commands and tricks 'find the bone' is fun - work it out - ;). Plus you get to punish them as well. A chastity cage is normally a must for good pup order as they will hump your leg/boots given half the chance. Some handlers are more disciplinarian and have pups that are always impeccably behaved - but for myself I enjoy a bit of pup chaos now and then!

I really rate stretching/yoga/flexibility exercises, for both Doms and subs but as a Dom a flexible sub is a thing of joy. In our little kink family stretching is a bit of a morning ritual. After breakfast either myself or our pup will lead us (including any guests) in 20-30 mins of exercises designed to keep us supple and adaptable. My personal priority is to make sure subs have flexible feet. Basically this means they should be able to sit back on their ankles with the tops of their feet flat on the floor and sit upright with a straight back. It allows for some of my favorite positions. These may look easy but really they aren't - unless you have done your footwork! The other thing is that subs should be able to bend their toes to 90 degrees, rest on the balls of their feet with their body weight on their ankles. The advantages of having a sub that can hold this position for a while are, I suspect, pretty obvious!

Little handy hint for meeting inexperienced players or if you are an inexperienced player - be careful with the question 'what are you into?'. A few times we have been contacted by guys who tell us what 'they are into'. This can mean different things to different people. Too often inexperienced subs mean 'I have fantasized about', 'I like the idea of' or 'I like porn that contains'. We have learned it is always worth checking whether they have actually done what they claim to be into. Happy to work with inexperience and let people try new things but we need to know actual, real world likes/dislikes as well.

Here is a random picture of one of our subs which has nothing whatsoever to do with this post - but is quite pretty -if I say so myself....

Back in the days pre-covid we enjoyed the countdown to initiating a new sub. We will have been messaging with him online, established what we like and what we are up for, encouraged him to chat with some of our other subs (take references being one of our top tips) and then moved to the pre-meeting chat (we usually do these on telegram or whatsapp). There's always one bit in this process which I think is very important but there really is not a way to make it that sexy: the dreaded 'health & safety' list.

We have a standard range of checks we do with every sub before we play with them. Most importantly we specifically check for any medical conditions that might be an issue during play (think of things like asthma or diabetes). If there is a remote chance that a sub may need medication during a scene I want to know before hand and I want that medication in my control from the moment they arrive (most commonly a ventilator for asthma). We cover things like blood pressure (if known), injuries (look at our bondage pics if you want to know why we check for these) and any history of fainting. I think it reassures most subs that we take their safety seriously - but it still feels like an insurance questionnaire (and you have to be pretty niche to get off on those - although the medical fantasy people do quite like it).

Much more fun for me is to remind them that on their first visit they they will be losing the underwear they arrive in. So, wear a pair they don't mind losing and bring spare if they want any to go home in. No ifs, no buts, it's a rule. It is a trophy/souvenir thing. A collection of sub underwear looks good hanging on the wall of the playroom. Plus we also like to play 'match the sub to their underwear' with our pup during Locktober. The rules are simple - the pup is shown 10 face pics and 10 pairs of sub underwear and has to match them up. For every match he gets right he gets time out of chastity and to cum. he is actually frighteningly good. His last score was 8 out of 10. In fact he has got so good we now also ask for predictions - 'what underwear will this sub turn up in?' and he guesses based on their online profiles. But you know, no matter how much we remind them about this there's always one or two that forget, but really, at that point not our problem. Truth be told messages like this one do make me smile quite a lot: "Sitting on train home. No underwear and lubey arsehole. Eek!"

Well you were warned ;)