Over these past months Ive taken a step in and step out of the Kink World. Each time I step back in I find im a little more knowledgeable in my own way. I had the opportunity to escape the city for a few days and spend time in the bush in solitude. I ran the thought of that special number 4 and how it relates to many things in our life. Mental, Physical, Spiritual and Emotions, In the life I live these 4 things come up in every aspect. when one is not right the others end up working over time. I think back to a time I spend with a Pro Domme who does couple therapy, She shed alot of new light on my initial thoughts towards Kink, and how it can be used in a way alot like medicine or at least a form of it. This may be a poor example of explaining my thoughts but when I think of smoking, It does have its negative properties but underneath all that is is a kind of medicine. How we use these medicines is up to us, when it comes to Kink I can see that with different individuals, because the medicine effects us in different ways.
I hope you enjoyed this Rammble of my thought!