The General Musings of a Sane Madman

NotReallyHere​(sub female){I’m His} - You really are the best most badass Dom that’s ever evered. ❤️

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Aww looks like someone’s trying to get to 52 😘

NotReallyHere​(sub female){I’m His} - If it pleases you. 😉

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - If I may....?

No, there is no term for a Bratty Dom because most people view the word as a behavior identifier. It's also viewed as a negative and when calling someone a Brat, it's said like a swear word. When calling someone a Brat, they usually say it as if they have something foul in their mouths.

Brats are vilified, hated, and rejected as a valid form of submission. We are told that Brats are really "switches" and we need to stop lying about who we are (or we are just really *air quotes* "confused" about our role) and we need to admit that we are switches.

We are yelled at and abused by strangers. I've had my life threatened and names spewed at me like they had the DUTY to ensure that I felt shame for who I was.

Do I know male Doms who are Brats? Yes. I know of one couple where BOTH partners were Brats.

They are married and in an open relationship.

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Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Thank you for the insight! I hate that you’ve had so many horrid experiences because of who and what you are. That really sucks. People are ducks (quack!) a lot of the time. I didn’t think there was an actual term for it, but I figured I’d ask. I like being a bratty Dom at times. Trying it out-brat a brat is a fun little game lol

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - That's all part of what I call "mental chess". It's fun, it's playful, and it strengthens mental acuity.

jkillaaa​(sub female) - A wizard

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Lol I love it!

NotReallyHere​(sub female){I’m His} - Maybe mischievous devil is a better term for you than brat. And lucky for you, I’m a good girl with minx tendencies. I would never dream of bratting or disobeying you, Sir. But I do know how much you like it when I tease you. 💋

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - You do like to tease! And I ducking (quack!) love it! Now I get a slutty little minx! Also… where did we land on “Esteban”?

NotReallyHere​(sub female){I’m His} - We can talk about “Esteban” later.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Pok pok pok!!!! Girl, I highly recommend embracing the Brat (*slaps Kazoo* back off...I wasn't talking literally!).

Pro tip...Brats LOVE to match wits. It's a fast paced game of D&D/build your own adventure/speed chess/tennis match/and dodge ball all wrapped into one. It's like fucking for us.....

NOW you can get onboard "Esteban". 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bunnie - I tend to just call bratty Doms, brats lol. Needless to say they don’t like that very much :b
Something i have come to observe is that there are 2 types of Dominants that say they don’t like brats… those that don’t enjoy the playfulness… and those who are brats themselves… i think because they don’t want the competition! Haha 😁

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - 🤣🤣🤣🤣
As funny as that is (and its really funny), I disagree that it's because they don't like the competition, mainly because Brats love to one-up each other. I think it's the negative association given to the word Brat. Spoiled, disobedient, argumentative, opositional little kids.

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - I feel like calling some Doms a brat would be almost insulting, because to them, as SBD mentioned, it’s a word that can carry a negative weight so it could possibly be seen as disrespectful to call your Dominant that. Obviously to each their own, but I actually enjoy it. I like teasing my girl and making a fun game of it. She calls me a brat and I smile and think of ways to make it even more fun. I wear it like a badge of honor!

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - My former Dom felt the same way. Granted, I couldn't call him that often but occasionally was fine.

Your girl and I have a mutual friend that gets called a Brat all the time by me and the girls. He just rolls with it. 🤣🤣

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - It’s definitely situational. If I’m being more serious and intense, getting called a brat would likely result in a bit more of a sore ass than normal. But when used at the right time… it’s delightful!

Curiousmind​(sub female){Owned} - Human…because all of us at times come up with various forms of behaviour including brattiness 🙂.

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - This is very true! We all have so many facets to who and what we are, including having a bit of brattitude! I think that’s what makes all of us unique and beautiful. It’s really pretty amazing when you think about it. We all live in this shared clusterduck (quack) of an existential crisis that we call life, but we all have the capacity to make it our own in an infinite number of ways!

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Brattitude? Brattidude? It works.,

Bratti-dude. A brat who is a dude.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Hey Kazoo! Loooooook what *I* found! I've not watched the whole thing but by the time you see this, I will have.

*Evie Lupine: Can Dominants be Brats Too? Bratting isn't just for Subs!*

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "Sentient Monkey Spawn!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

That is SOOOOOOOO YOU!

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Lol well you know, us monkey folk gotta stick together!