I have certain rules when I'm exploring the kink journey with my partner.
There’s a reason this is my number one rule when entering into a BSDM dynamic.
Good Morning -means so much more than what is said between partners. It’s an...I’m awake and the first thing I thought of when I opened my eyes was you. I want to make sure you know I’m still here, I care for you and you are an important part of my day.
Good night -as trivial as it sounds it’s not goodbye, but it’s the last text I send because I want you to know you’re on my mind when I close my eyes to lay down. It’s the feeling of comfort that your person wants you to feel as you’re in bed and thinking of them to end your day on a happy note. No matter what that day brought, no matter the craziness. The phone calls that went missed or the miscommunication throughout the day, whatever has happened, it’s the way to end the day on even ground with the hope of the new day to come.
Do not take for granted those that have provided this for you.