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The Phoenix - Eros' Rising

"Passion has overthrown tyrants and freed prisoners and slaves. Passion has brought justice where there was savagery. Passion has created freedom where there was nothing but fear. Passion has helped souls rise from the ashes of their horrible lives and build something better, stronger, more beautiful.”
2 years ago. March 9, 2023 at 5:01 AM

What is being self aware?  So many answers to a simple question. To me, it is owning my shit and not projecting it on to another. If I am upset and mad, I don’t take it out on an innocent person. It is knowing who you are and what your emotional/mental state is at any given moment. It is being able to take a step back to look at a situation in a different perspective instead of reacting with your emotions.  Learning to take emotions and setting them to the side in order to look at different situations. 

What does being self aware mean to you?

 

And, being honest, how self aware are you?

 

I would love and can’t wait to see the responses you all have. ?

 

There are no wrong answers as an FYI. This is about your perspective. 

Eros❤️?❤️?

alawey​(sub female)​{(OWNED BY } - I would agree with owning ones own shit.

For me. I try hard to remember not everyone has a hamster like mine. ( shit it even throws my BBS and Wulf a few curve balls sometimes. )and to be honest sometimes I don't get the why been something but I get the why beside the action. ( phhfff see, I'm not sure that makes any sense to anyone but me).

I also think that being self awareness is being able to have a taboo talk ( political, religious, ect) with someone who sees it differently without getting into a yelling / fight situation.
Along with knowing yourself well enough that if you say you are going to do something ,you will do it come hell or high water.

Just my two cents
2 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕}Verified Account - For me, being self aware is not only understanding how I function but being honest with myself about how I DISfunction. In order for me to own my shit, I have to be honest about my shit in the first place. Why I have shit, where it originates, and what shit I'm avoiding.
2 years ago
Literate Lycan​(dom male) - Good answers above. I would offer perspective (literally the word that came to mind as I read your blog before I reached the last line - hmm - excellent word to end it on). Realizing both what we see from the inside as well as how it appears from the outside. I would surmise most individuals only ever see what's seen from the inside - hence we are not fully aware of the totality of the picture we present.

I would say some days I am very aware of both how I see the world and how the world sees me or the situation. But some days (many days) I only consider my own internal view. Great morning thought for the day. Thank you for blogging.
2 years ago
jkillaaa​(sub female) - What does being self aware mean to me? Being a realist.
2 years ago
Beautiful eyes​(sub female)​{Taken} - To me it's stepping back and looking not only at the things I want to be but truly feel. It's accepting me. Seeing the positives and negatives and choosing to try and be better than myself and be the person I strive to be. Being truthful with myself.
2 years ago
SassyInName​(sub female) - To me being self aware is understanding myself, my reactions and thoughts. Being able to analyze those reactions and thoughts if I do not instantly understand them. It is recognizing when I am reacting a certain way because of conditioning or because it is truly how I feel or is my instinct. Being self aware to me is knowing my limitations and weaknesses. And knowing where I can chose to improve or change and where I have to accept reality.
2 years ago

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