When all around you is buzzing with life, children, parents, grandparents, random individuals milling through life at their own pace, and you feel so alone, that’s loneliness. I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve been so incredibly lonely surrounded by people.
It’s said that a “community” is a group of two or more people with a common interest/purpose. The Cage is my community now.
Im a sub, and I’m finally proud to be. Having the validatory supportive comments, experiences, attitudes, opinion and so much more to read on blogs through the myriad of “controversial” topics is breathtaking to me. Even the argumentative and contradictory ones aren’t necessarily judgemental!!!
I’m chatty to the vanilla world, bubbly, outgoing, even “vibrant” has been thrown at me. How little do they know about me. I’m actually incredibly private, quiet, permanently deep in thought, and so often so incredibly lonely. Surrounded by people, yet solitary.
But I’ve found my people, I’ve found my tribe, Ive stumbled upon my community.
I’ve been blessed to meet like-minded people who’ve welcomed me with open arms, a warmer hug I’ve only received from my coffee of acceptance. I feel so safe here (despite the a-holes of insta-doms).
I was always told life begins at 40, I guess it has for me!
So whatever the future holds for me, thank you, kind folk. Thank you kinksters. Thank you for being you, recognising it, and not being afraid to be here.
#markedsafefromvanilla
