Title may be misleading 🤣.
So a little conversation was had with my ever patient Daddy the other night and he urged me to blog my thoughts/questions. So here I am, sunburnt on the bits I couldn’t reach, hiding in the shadows of a beautifully cool house and deciding to “go there” on the braveness of a bevvy. I tried before to ask in another blog relating to lifestyle hard limits, and got some answers but I’ll admit to being utterly confused!
A lot of conversation revolves around different types of sub, who they are, what they do/don’t do, what they need from a dynamic, our needs, our wants, how we choose to submit as opposed to being dominated.
My question is relatively simple but multi-faceted: what do you, a Dom(me) need/want from a dynamic? WhT is YOUR must have? Sexual proclivities put to one side in this please!!! I have asked His Lordship this question and gotten a straight answer from Him which I must admit surprised me, but I’m quite happy with. I know what he offers in return, (so very very much), and without even asking he’s certainly providing what I myself want/need. But what makes you, you. What makes you a Dom in your mind (subbie brain asking politely). What do you feel courses through your veins?
I know I could attempt to tell you what His Lordship is like to me, and if I did it wouldn’t necessarily be what He Himself may think or feel about Himself. But that’s from a sub’s perspective, not a Dom’s!!!
I sincerely hope all of this makes sense...! Love and bubbles to all 😘
MLP
