So I read read your ad today or maybe it was your profile, can't say there was much of a difference between the two.
You know, the one where you say you're looking for________ to ________.
Usually it is followed by some fantasy wish list of desired physical traits.
To often it is missing what in the end really matters for a compatible match to reach out and find you.
More alarming though is the lack of information either requested or revealed as to the knowledge or experience one has in what is being offered or requested. I mean the point is to actually be alive and sane when you finally find/experience it, right?
So you want to find someone to experience _________. Great, but if you're new to it, I would hope you would request someone who is experienced in it rather than take the risk you are the their first test subject.
So you say you want to _______ another. Great, but where is your list of what you have done to be qualified to say I should even think you even have a basic knowledge of what you say you are/can do??
True story, I comment that I like needle play and have someone running back with dull rusty sewing needles and a bottle of nail polish remover to "clean them up a bit" Yeah, no....moving on.
Maybe I am just showing my age, maybe I have an overactive self preservation gene but I know that I did make it this far and plan on living quite a bit longer by making sure at least one of us knows what the hell we are doing.
I do get a chuckle out of some of the ads and profiles while rolling my eyes, muttering "Be careful what you ask for"....so thank you for that.
Just my random thoughts on the matter. Am I even qualified to speak on it? I'll leave that for you to figure out.