So, I am not a very experienced Dom on the physical sense of BDSM as yet 😁. I am quite experienced on the emotional and energetic side, holding a space for someone and reading them.
In the past month or so I have been chatting to loads of different submissive's and have noticed that the new or young submissive's I have spoken to seem to forget that they are allowed to ask questions.
I find the conversation runs out because they don't contribute to the conversation, I have been told on a few occasions that they thought they were not allowed to ask questions without permission.
I have to keep saying to them, I just met you, I am not your Dom, I am just a Dom you are talking to, you are not my submissive. you are allowed to be yourself and ask as many questions as you can. get to know me, if you do decide to submit then you know more about me, the more you know the better you will fit and the better you can surrender to your submissiveness, the safer you will feel the deeper you can go.