are the simple things. Holding a door open with a slight smile, pulling a chair out and feeling the connection as your coat is taken off.
walking around the house with no underwear on as a surprise when acting out by moving something to the wrong place on purpose.
going for coffee and smiling at the tie being worn.
having someone say sit down when your pacing or make you a cup of tea.
going out in a crowded place with your partners hand on your hip.
going to get drinks getting hit on and going back to the table the two of you are on, keeping an eye on you but knows you can handle things yourself.... Also staring at your arse as you go to get the drink, how anyone knows this I don't know but somehow you do.
not being able to make up your mind of what you want to eat and he makes a suggestion.
things that seem simple and non bdsm but can be and mean so much more to the two of you.
