Rose's Thorns.

Effort can count for a lot. And yes that can mean more than 3 dates. 

There seems to be a sheer lack of wanting to build something with someone and the effort that is required. Its like we are all trying to do it on the cheap and make it happen with as little effort and investment as possible.... even from the ones who try it sucks.

If i wanted that ... guess what... i could easily get it... i did that for years... im not here for that. The effort you think it takes times it by ten. Don't just ask questions and then do nothing with the information thats given to you. Build on the conversation.