Dating is difficult at the best of times but somehow only the creeps seem to be around, where have all the men gone ? The ones who want to have a conversation with you for at least 10min before asking you back to there place? (being sarcastic) and thats the polite verson of what is said. The guys who dance with you for one song then expect you to fuck them. The 'nice guy' who like to think he is supportive and nice as long as its only on his terms otherwise your judged to no end. Feel like smacking my head against a wall. The ones who are being genourus and are kind enough to buy you a few drinks as they try to get you hammered with alcohol. How the fuck is someone meant to find anyone decent, you have to go through so much crap as a woman to find someone and when the relationship doesnt work you know you have to go back out into single girl armagedon. It would be lovely to be able to go for a drink in a bar on your own and feel safe. Really trying hard to not cave in and just drink so much that i dont care where i wake up the next day or who im with as its one of the few ways i can let anyone near me outside D/s style especially when there is no interest in putting the time or effort it, is that all women are worth now? Beacuse continuing to wade through single girl armagedon and try to look after myself or cave and get so drunk i wont care or remember the second one is becoming more and more appealing. Im trying my best not to tho. x
There is a difference between calling a woman beautiful because you like her perosnality looks and manner and saying she is beautiful to just fuck her and go onto the next one and yes speaking on behalve of women its obvious mainly as your not looking at us in the face as you complement us!
If you doubt what i am saying then i suggest asking a woman friend what are the worst mesages she has recived on a dating profile.
Not being able to be touched unless its with someone i trust a lot like D/s style months of knowing each other or plyed with alchol is hard with how things work today especially with the last one not an option.
Things can play on your mind which doesnt help. I once had someone say after i had been unwell that they couldn never see me as attractive ever again 😡 its stupid how your brain works sometimes. Becuase even with finding it difficult to be close with someone if i manage that, my stupid sub brain now worries about bothering someone so much if i am unwell that it sticks with them.
