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Rose's Thorns.

A general pondering.
2 years ago. June 5, 2021 at 2:34 AM

So something odd has started to happen. Ive noticed it over the past few years. It used to be an odd one off but seems to have gotten more frequent recently.

Where guy's don't just come up to ask you out but actually try to invite themselves into your flat. Yes i mean complete strangers. The 'oh we can get a drink at yours'. What? When did this become a thing? 

It's happened recently turns out its also happened to a friend who lives in a different area of the country, so is this some new way of chatting women up, random dudes inviting themselves in? 

Or the 'do you have a boyfriend if not can i come up' ? 

This was the other week but a year ago i realized halfway through being chatted up that i wasn't being chatted up at all..... it's probably not appropriate to put upon here. When i realized i was kinda speechless. 

 

Is this a new way of trying to score or something? Hi you don't know me and im a random guy but can you take me upstairs even though im a complete stranger. 

 

Has this happened to anyone else because its kinda weird walking home from the shop and a stranger walking past goes you look good can i come up for a drink. 

WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - That is a big red flag for me.
2 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Yes it is but it's happened repeatedly recently and not just to me either so was wondering if it's happened to others.
2 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - i vaguely recall something about it, it is normally a set up for more than just getting in her or his pants.
2 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - What do you mean?
2 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - It can be a set up for a crime, property, finical, or more and worse.
2 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Really? Okay that actually makes more sense. I was wondering if there was was some odd rom com advice from some 'expert' that was doing the exact opposite lol
2 years ago
Rivermxl - Definitely weird, even all the way to Mexico.
2 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Three times in the past month and on the street. It's one thing in a pub when someone has too much to drink but middle of the day in the street its odd
2 years ago
Rivermxl - Yeah It'd definitely make me tense if it was practically out of nowhere.
2 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Its like the in person version of a dick pic. I used to wonder if that worked because they kept doing it but obviously it wouldn't work in the real world well... here we are random guy going up to strangers and inviting themselves inside for fun
2 years ago
Sunshinegirl​(sub female) - It’s unfortunately more normal for men to try and invite themselves into your home nowadays. I have no idea why but I literally had this conversation with my friend about this last week. Usually it’s not because they are trying to murder or rob you, it’s just because they don’t want to pay for an actual date/dinner/coffee and think it’s an easier route to get laid! Pretty pathetic, but you aren’t alone in your experiences and thoughts.
2 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - So that's interesting, its not just me. It's weird, when has it ever worked? Some random guy on the street walks up and invites himself in? It's like a bad comedy. What happened to the hold the door open guys?
2 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - To many years of "comedy" shows that were just plain toxic and poorly written, combined with Hollywood being just plane out of ideas for decades.
2 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - and getting it bitten off foe being polite. (such a bad joke)
2 years ago
OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - Yeah! Happened to me twice since I have been in the city and going for walks. Just odd... like... in what world would "Can I come to your house and you feed me then fuck me" ever work? I think they are homeless, but they are asking for a date... not a meal... like... they would have more luck telling me they are homeless and needed a meal... tho I still wouldn't bring them home... just a cycle of trying things that might work. Strange that this is the one. Crazy thing, they could both be considered cuties... so who knows. Maybe it does work. My personal strategy if I was gonna go about it was... like... at least offer me cocaine or something? Like what is in it for me... like I want those things from a complete stranger? And in my own house?!
2 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Wow so it's not just me but seems to be happening to a few of us. This is the thing, when has this ever worked? Seriously. Who goes oh look some stranger who might have stds i must have you now. It's really insulting.

That's funny tho because if you ask why, what's in it for me they just look dumbfounded. Like they thing real life is a porno.
2 years ago
OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - Side note. I totally don't do cocaine (no judgment) I was just going for shock value.. like if I was in their shoes. 🤣
2 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Neither do i darlin... thing is you can't tell when someone is joking now lol
2 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - I wouldn't call them men, but boys. Because, "give me what I want because I want it" is not only imature, but extremely disrespectful.
2 years ago

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