6 years ago. December 4, 2017 at 7:31 AM
If you only want to do something when you're drunk, you probably shouldn't be doing it.
Also, you probably shouldn't be drinking, if you are using alcohol to get yourself to do stuff.
That goes doubly... naw, quadruply, when it involves BDSM or anything else where being impaired can be extremely dangerous for you, your partner, or both.
And me? I'm not going to be turned on or tempted when you only try to hook up with me when you're drunk. Hell no, I respect myself. I have standards. I give myself to people who desire me for me, not people who decide I'm an ok option after they've knocked back 5 shots. I'm valuable. I'm not going to enganger myself, physically or emotionally.
Play safe. Play sober.