A friend told me way back in 1994 that he could no longer have normal sex. Being the red blooded male I was at the time; I had no idea what me meant. Sex 26 years ago I was a youthful 32 year old. I got into BDSM in photography in 1998 with the birth of the Internet here in the UK.
Since then I have hadc2 marriages in between trying to find my soul mare my other equal ie 100% Sub to me being 100% Dom. This has proved more difficult than I imagined. Normal sex became boring. I found getting a hard on more and more difficult to maintain... UNTIL I found myself standing there with my Suede flogger in hand and a nice juicy ass waiting to bring the flogger down across it.
I made myself a list that I swore I was not going to compromise with. This was what I liked and nothing was going to change that.
Dating became impossible as all I could attract was wannabees and pure vanilla.
In 2009 I showed my list to a woman whom said said she would give my list a try. 12 years later I am now back where I started seeking my other equal half. I had compromised on every single one of my 10 list items for love.
I realised 6 years ago I was not happy and I was not being fed. The need to be with someone that understood me and my needs was sorry missing drum my life. I had wasted 12 quality years of my life but no more. Am I to be single forever? Or will I find that elusive Sub thar yearns for the same satisfaction as myself that can only come from being in a pure 24/7 loving BDSM relationship.
