Thoughts From A New Me

:):):) Stay warm my cage friends. 

FlitterFly... :):):) 

Hello All, 

Back on thecage, getting acquainted with old friends, and finding new ones. 

Definitely missed my home away from home. 

Mischief & All Types of Shinnanagins. ? 

I know that we experience ghosting on this site. And well, "there loss".   

But for the love offff. 

It would be nice to at least say ( thank you for your time, but no thank you. )

Right.... 

Recently, I was gifted premium. 

And wow, how generous, thank you... 

But then ghosted out of nowhere, for no apparent reason and blocked. 

Other than, from what I can see, is because what? 

Because I did not give to this person and only this person my undivided attention? 

I hardly had a conversation with this individual before they gifted me premium. 

And I never asked them to gift me premium anyway. 

Not that I would ask, mind you. 

But hey, allow me to say.   

Wow, Thank You, How Genorouse. ? 

I'm happy to be gifted this, truly. 

As we spoke, I continued a conversation with this someone. 

And I have gone back and looked at the conversation. 

As I see it, they were the ones who just stopped speaking in the middle of that ongoing conversation. 

So again, what makes a person stop in the middle of a conversation with no apparent reason, and then block and ghost? 

I likely will never know. 

And I do not expect anyone else to know either. 

What in the world has happened to common curtiousy? 

Again, this is the reason why...  

As I come to the conclusion of. 

Unless they expected me to give to them, and only them, my undivided attention.  

If not, then why?  

Anyway, I thank you, lovely readers, for listening to my rant. 

So good to be back on thecage. 

Oh, P.S. 

If this someone happens to read my blog, 

Feel free to send me a little note, or not. 

Your Genorouse gift was, and is, appreciated. 

Even if only to say. Thanks, but no thanks. 

Anyway, I take my leave. 

Thank You 

FlitterFly... :):):) 

When your little comes out, 

While people are around talking about having a get-together, and you are not invited. 

Why ? 

Because your real life age, says you are to old. 

But : 

But :

But :

But :

I only " 3 ".... 😒 ? 

A Very Special Munch

10/9/2022:

This munch like most, had started out with warm welcomes and a beautiful atmosphere. An outside potluck, seeing old and new friends. Good vibes and a sense of belonging. This time of year we let go of the old to embrace the new, and that is exactly how the munch felt. From the very beginning all the way to the end, it was truly a new beginning. We had no clue just what was about to take place, and what a beginning it was!!!

The Twist:

So there were about 50 or so kinksters who had shown up. Everyone was having a splendid time. Papa Bear stood and asked us all to give our support and congratulations to a very wonderful, loving, kind and generous woman, whom we have all come to love and adore, Ms. Sweet Willow.

Now let me tell you, none of us to include our sweet lady of the hour, knew anything of what was about to transpire. And our Sweet Willow was about to be blown away.

At this time, Papa Bear asked Willow to sit down and then went on to ask the rest of us to place our hands on Willow’s shoulders. We all rushed up to do so. There were so many of us and such an out pouring of support and emotion being given to this lovely lady. So much love, support and energy!

Papa Bear went on to say that Master-slave Sayuri Kane couldn’t be there in person so she had asked Papa Bear to read a letter she had written to Sweet Willow.

The letter read:

“Willow, you’ve been in the lifestyle a good, long while now and you’ve always helped and volunteered whenever it was needed. You have stood up for what is right and protected those in need. No matter what happens in your personal life, you have always displayed the tenets of leather: Respect, Honor, Integrity, and Honesty. Because of this, I, Master-slave Sayuri Kane, feel that you have completely earned your vest. Wear it with pride, as I am very proud of you! Congratulations!”

At this point, Papa Bear proceeded to place Willows' vest on her.

In his place, another dear friend and leather slave came forward, removed her shoes and knelt, barefoot on the pavement in front of Willow. She then told the story of a family heirloom ring that survived two wars and the family buried the jewelry when they were taken away to the camps in the holocaust. The heirlooms were retrieved and made the long journey across the ocean to the United States. She then gave Willow one of her treasured rings. It was such a genuine, touching and beautiful sentiment to honor, not only her friend, but now a sister in leather.

Then a call came and you could feel the excitement in the air. There was a thankful, heart-felt squeal. Tears of joy, happiness and love from dear friends, congratulating Willow on a monumental occasion following her determination, dedication and pure will.

Willow later said, “This is the moment I couldn’t help but cry. All I know is my heart swelled so much that it started leaking from my eyes in happiness and so much emotion. And that’s the moment this felt real.”

To finish off the ceremony, E came forward with a pin. Papa Bear stood with his hand bracing Willow’s back and E pushed the pin through the leather and smacked it into her chest. (This creates a blood bond between the wearer and their leather). A true joy and honor for me along with the rest of our kinky community to witness such a dedicated and loving lady, a deserving lady in every way possible, to be honored and accepted after years of hard work and dedication.

This was in fact truly humbling. And I am truly honored to call you my friend. Thank you for who you are and being a part of my life, Ms. Sweet Willow.

Flitter Fly 😄 :-) Awe-inspiring Magical
 

So on my post, Learning Me. 

I was asked ? 

What was the change that surprised me most ? 

My answer : Pain... 

So I've been thinking on this answer more and more. 

You see, I have lived my life where I have been harmed, degraded, hurt, mentally, physically, and emotionally. 

I have had every game known to man, played on me. ( figuratively speaking ) 

Lived with a narcissist for over a decade. 

Used, abused, cheated on, stole from, and left with nothing.

So for me to find pleasure, want, need, in being degraded, physically being spanked, harmed. 

To enjoying the fight, the hunt, the Pain that I endure. 

That change is what surprises me the most.

And the more I learn, and try and do.

The more I find that anything done in the right way, can be pleasurable, enjoyable, wanted, needed, and so much more. 

Even a physical punishment, one given, meant to hurt and discipline, is expected, excepted, wanted and needed at times.  

Growth.... 

Thank You 

FlitterFly..:):):) 

Hope You All Have A Very Kinky Wednesday ? 

Stay Strong

Stay Safe

And Have Fun 

FlitterFly..:):):)

So I have taken the BDSM test again. 

And well, WOW !!! 

Over all most is correct. 

But the over all change in who I am, and how I am growing. Is a bit mind blowing to me.. 

And knowing that with only doing and trying out some different scenes, that my test scores will Sky-rocket to even a higher percentage of who I am, and what kinds of kink I am into and willing to do. 

It's exciting to me to see the difference in the mind set as I learn, and experience. To have an open mind, and realize that things that may have not set well, or looked scary, etc. 

Is now the thrill, hope, and desire. That I long to have, feel, and know. 

Thank You 

To All Of My Kinky Friends, Hear On The Cage. 

FlitterFly...:):):)

Always searching, looking, stumbling, falling, and getting back up. 

That is life. 

And in life

I am always growing, and learning more about myself, who I am, and who I want to be. 

We all stumble and fall and fail at times in our life. 

But it is how we claw our way back out of whatever hell, that we have found ourselves in, that matters. 

What we do, and how we rise.

That is what makes us, instead of breaking us. 

FlitterFly ..:):):)

3-10-22 

Sometimes 

Sometimes we think we know what we want, but then we get blind sided. 

Sometimes we think we found what we need in life, but then it is snatched away. 

Sometimes we think we are, or can be enough for someone, but realize we will never be what they said they want. 

Sometimes we want, what we will never have. 

Sometimes we stay, when we should leave. 

Sometimes we leave, when we should stay. 

Sometimes we need to place one foot in front of the other, because we dare to dream dreams, that will never come true. 

Sometimes we must not walk, but run away, or we get crushed for ever thinking, that we were good enough to be, Only His. 

Sometimes it's best, to leave while we can still be friends, before we realize we overstayed our welcome, and lost more then we can bare to lose. 

Sometimes 

FlitterFly..:(:(:( 

Harder Said Then Done, Obviously. 

I really do not know what has gotten In to me, in my younger years. 

BUT MY LABITO IS OUT OF THIS WORLD. 

PRAY GOD, AND ANY ENERGY FIELD, YOU SO CHOOSE TO, THAT IT IS THIS WAY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. 

I would rather die being the most turned on, horny woman in the world.

With any and all means to satisfy my needs. Then to die alone, untouched, unwanted, unsatisfied. 

May God Grant Me, this one thing in life, 

For I have already LIVED HELL. 

FlitterFly...:):):) 

Xoxoxoxo 

Jan 2nd 2022