Thoughts From A New Me

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - I ❤️ this!! Also when you love yourself first you will kinda repel the users and will attract something good not breadcrumbers, narcissist and other loser time wasters..

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Exactly, I'm learning and it is because of the positive people in my life.
But also because I've never given to myself this in full.
It's way past time.
And from here on out
I will always choose me.
Then I can give and receive.
Also I won't be to disappointed if things don't work out.
We all need to choose to love ourselves.
Thanks Sweet Ginger 🤗

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - ❤️

The Kinky Poet​(other male) - BE STRONG BE BEAUTIFUL AND BE YOU
Love and light T.K.P xx

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Always
Thank You Mr Ron 🤗

Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - If you don't know who you are, how can you expect someone to know you better?
Continue to choose you , learn and grow to be a better version of you

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - And expressing what we need within our relationship.. No body is a mind reader..we all crave different things and have different boundaries..learning to discover ourselves we are better able to communicate this with our partner to prevent hopefully misunderstandings butt also to get both of our needs met..for a more loving satisfying relationship and who doesn't want that?,!!

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Absolutely, we have a saying posted on the wall, that reads.
If it is not known
It can not be fixed.
Reminding us to communicate. 🤗🥰

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Always
And I do know who I am
It's in choosing to love myself the way I love others, that is the change. And I got this. 🥰
I choose me. :)

Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Absolutely

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Thank You Mr. Don 💛

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - Isn't that the truth! We are always much more kinder to others then ourselves..self ❤️ is a daily process, I feel to give some of that love back to ourselves..regardless of where we are in life and who we allow into our lives..we will live with ourselves for our lifetime..

flitter'fly​(sub female) - 💯 % 🥰

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - I use to feel that self love was somehow being selfish..those who inflect those types of messages are the ones most likely to drain all you love, kindness and empathy without giving much back in return..

flitter'fly​(sub female) - It's to easy to believe the worst in oneself.
But knowing ones value and choosing oneself is so worth the trouble.
More rewarding.
And leaves you not needing it from another.
Therefore when you are given such care and love, it's for all the right reasons.
Hugs 🤗 my friend.
It's okay to be selfish in loving yourself.
More people should. 🥰

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - This is a lesson it took a LONG time for Me to learn, even as a Dom/Master.. FAR too many times I felt inadequate in the lives of the girl or girls I had collared.. After My last sub/slave, I took a voluntary hiatus to get t o the basis of the issues with ME.. I was single for 3 years doing My best to 'fix' Myself so I could be the ME I was meant to be, NOT the interpretation of the Me someone else had given to Me and made Me believe I was..

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Yes Daddy,
We all have a need to find this within ourselves.
I am so thankful that you have.
And by doing so, you were able to find yourself in New territory with YOUR littles.
A whole new way of doing things, also seeing in a different perspective, a different light.
It is exciting and even more meaningful.
Knowing how you thrive, by helping us to thrive.
Is absolutely amazing... :)
Thank You Daddy
We Love You ❤️