Getting To Know Y/you...
As we travel through this wonderland called kink, we meet people, talk, and become friends.
We spend time writing blogs, learning this world, and learning about one another.
As time continues, some of us stick around, and we grow.
We become better versions of ourselves.
Then, one day, we start talking to someone that we have had the privilege of meeting here on the cage.
Soon, a friendship flourishes and starts to become a bit deeper.
All the while, feelings start to become more prominent.
As we continue, things seem to be progressing rather quickly in that friendship, and feelings tend to deepen.
We start catching ourselves, wanting to jump rather than to crawl.
So we take a step back.
Good, right....
But as we take that step back to reassess and slow things back down to that crawl.
We also tend to lose a bit of focus.
After all, feelings are in place now.
Emotions are out to play.
One or both parties start to over-think, overreact, and tend to pull further back from the other.
Remember to talk, be clear and respectful. Allow one another to know that Y/you are still on board.
Y/you still want to continue with the getting to know Y/you stage. This is critical.
Staying focused allows one to handle things in the correct way.
Transparency is crucial at this stage.
Stay calm, do not over- think, or over analyze. Do not allow emotions to make Y/you go into a panic.
This is when we tend to start pushing another away.
Rushing is bad.
Pushing is bad.
Overthinking is bad
Overreacting is bad
Talk to one another like Y/you have been all along. Countinue Your growth in this stage.
Nothing is clear yet.
Take this time to breathe, clear your head, and learn one another. Learn what's being told, what is expected later, and what is expected now.
Take in every bit of this time that Y/you need to strengthen the bond and grow together, as people in kink, in this world, and in this lifestyle.
Be their best friend in this world. Learn all Y/you can, have fun, after all Y/you get the privilege of having their time, energy, and affections spent on Y/you.
If Y/you get to antsy, greedy, needy, or difficult.
Chances are Y/you are the one that loses out.
After all, how many toads did Y/you have to sift through before Y/you finally found your frog. 🐸
Y/you are only at the getting to know Y/you stage.
Have fun, right where Y/you are.
Y/you are right where Y/you need to be.
Getting To Know Y/you...
Thank Y/you
FlitterFly... :):):)
DawnRobin 🥰
