Naughty Musings

DoseofCam​(sub female){Owned} - 1) I love wearing my collars! Especially my Slave Collar I wear whenever I am home.

I’ve been super sad that most of my Collars my Daddy gave me don’t fit me anymore since I’ve lost weight 😭

2) Hmm W/we haven’t used a leash before, but if that can substitute hair pulling it would be a plus.


3) Wearing my Collar whenever I’m with my Dom is amazing. Makes me show off that I’m His!

CanBiWife​(dom female) - Very nice ! I think you should at least try a leash to see if you like it. Probably much better than having your hair pulled.

I'mME - I see a collar taking on different meanings these days. A collaring ceremony used to be very sacrosanct, meant way more to some partnerships than a ring. Often these days, self-described Doms/Masters are handing out a collar upon meeting someone.
What's the purpose of the collar then?
Sighhhh......
I have seen levels of collars; under consideration, in training, etc.

Now a collar and leash during play, well, lmao. I might like that, one just never knows.

What are your thoughts, CanBiWife?

CanBiWife​(dom female) - I do respect the solemnity of the Collaring Ceremony

I was thinking more about wearing one during play … and a Sub wearing a Day Collar when she is out and about with her Dominant

sexycurves​(switch female) - I can't imagine myself ever wearing a collar during play.

Maybe in the form of a necklace in a long term dynamic.

ButterfliesAndCuffs​(sub female) - I love wearing a collar and a leash. I’ve only worn one collar that meant something special and although I never had a day collar I have an anklet.
There’s something just so hot and exciting to me about wearing a leash and being led around. Puts me in a happy, turned on, and very submissive state.

I'mME - You naughty elf.
Merry Christmas to you and LJ

ButterfliesAndCuffs​(sub female) - Naughty elves have more fun. 😉 Hope that you had a very Merry Christmas too and that you have an incredible new year! 💜🦋

CanBiWife​(dom female) - Thank you !

I love putting a collar and leash on a woman … leading her around

It puts me in a happy Domme-inant state
🥰 🔥 😈

I'mME - Lol, Oh No! That's not in my future, lol, maybe the other way around, CBW.

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - For me a collar has many meanings and I feel that meaning belongs to the one wearing it (an of course the one who asks it to be worn). ❤️

But, to answer your question, I LOVE a play collar and the thought of a leash to it sends me... well, into deep submission as B&C so eloquently said.

A "day collar " to me is something the Dom gives to his submissive that she wear EVERY day, out and about and not "giving away" the meaning, BUT the meaning is soooo significant, being owned! That's how I see a day collar. A representation of that ownership... being able to be public but private.

My Daddy gave me a leather anklet years ago, W/we call it my "shackle". Meaning, I am shackled to Him AND THAT means the world to me. and Every time He says "shackle to me" I am beyond happy and joyful! It's the epitome of me being HIS, a representation of that I belong to Him and He owns me!

CanBiWife​(dom female) - Sooo well said !

Thank you 😊

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - I'm single but I do feel the collar represents different things to different people...I have a collar that I had hand made just for me ..it's lavender lace that ties in the back..why do I wear it if I'm not in a D/s relationship? Glad you asked. 🙃 it helps center me..I'm sure some realize, they smile but it's more for me to draw into my feminine energy.
If/when relationship status changes I won't be wearing my personal lace collar that has a different meaning for me..I feel that choosing collars is a personal thing that should be something special between the Dom and his/her sub.

buckle bunny​(sub female){Walkalone } - When I first met my Sir we both discussed collars and our views. To both of us it was very significant and the meaning behind it powerful. I would never ask for a collar as I belive that is something that should be given not requested it's earned. I wear my collar proudly.
I also love play collars and just had one custom made