Downtime, In D&D your players don't technically need it, but their characters sure do. Some of my favorite experiences has been the downtime encounters between my characters and my friends or my NPC's and my players. and as with all things, this is a point where the dungeon can meet the dragons again. Because what about kinky downtime? I'm not suggesting taking a break from kink, just maybe step back from the ropes and the paddles and the sex (not for to long though.) Let me ask you something Dom's when's the last time you took a day just to treat and pamper your sub? If your not a 24/7 couple like us I mean your sub in the role of sub not your partner? How bout your subs? when was the last time you were pampered for the sake of pampering in subspace? has it been awhile? Same for my kitten. I mean sure as my wife I treat her fairly often but as a sub, for the sake of her being a sub while in subspace? I haven't. And I think that's a shame. After all, we do have our dynamic out of the bedroom and she goes out of her way to take care of her sir. Which is great it meets the needs we both have and the dynamic. but that being said She needs to be pampered by sir outside of aftercare or as a reward. But just because Sir loves and appreciates his kitten and all that she does as a sub. And so Friday, I have decided that my kitten is getting pampered and extra special attention, no kink strings attached simply because she deserves it. And if kinkery follows well all the better but if it doesn't well that's ok too. since today's a shorter blog, I'll leave a few of my favorite memes for the Dungeon Master's in our life... and remember it works for both types of dungeons.