I love music. I mean most people do. But I love how music sets the mood. I fancy myself a writer at times and have a playlist for every major project. I have a playlist for almost every mood and usually have some sort of music on in the background if there is nothing else going on. I mean an epic boss battle where everything relies on this one roll is one thing, but an epic boss battle where everything relies on this one roll with music that drives home the point without distracting is an entirely different ball game.
I don't have though music for scenes and kink. I know the one dungeon, the most important dungeon doesn't have an epic playlist to go with it? The horror, the scandal! but to be honest "all the sexy playlist to me feel so forced and a little cheesy. They just don't mesh with our vibe. And if it's meant to be a scene or practice such as practicing ties and isn't the whole shebang it's awkward. I've thought about making one but I'm just not sure what exact vibe I need. Now I may be a little overly picky but the point is to fill the overly silent spaces (and possibly cover up some louder moments) with distracting or taking away from the scene. Like an epic film score, it should add to it. What would star wars be without John Williams or The Crow be without its soundtrack? (the best blending of non-original music and film in my opinion.)
Sure not every scene will be a masterpiece or a cult classic but you never know. Some of the best games of D&D started out as a joke and turned into an epic campaign with beloved characters and friends who end up in each other's weddings. SO why not treat even a simple scene or practice or prep with a little more devotion? Worst case scenario you end up listening to some amazing tunes and having a good time.