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The truth about me
3 months ago. December 17, 2024 at 11:53 PM

I stood up for myself. I explained what I wanted and needed and set a boundary. Sounds simple, right. Well it has taken me 2 years of therapy to get to this point where I could finally put me first. And it doesn’t matter what the details were surrounding the situation, other than it triggered something for me. And their response was to try and “mansplain” themselves and their actions. So I told them that I was going to step away from the situation and that I expect them to respect my decision. I didn’t go into a million reasons why or explain myself trying to justify my decision. I simply stated what I was going to do. And I am fully prepared to block them if they don’t respect my wishes.

It’s baby steps, I know. But also….yay me!

The Kinky Poet​(other male) - Forward forever forward
Love and light T.K.P xx
3 months ago
PandaGirl​(sub female) - Thank you!
3 months ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - ??? congratulations on finding your voice.
3 months ago
PandaGirl​(sub female) - It took a hell of a long time and a lot of pain and heartache, but I found it. That’s what counts. Thank you!
3 months ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - Correct. 100%. Unless you agree to being a door mat, nobody should be used as one
3 months ago
Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared}Verified Account - The baby steps turn into giant ones when we realize nothing bad happens when we stand up for ourselves. Great job!
3 months ago
PandaGirl​(sub female) - Thank you so much for your kind words. I wasted so many years not standing up for myself. Never again! ?
3 months ago
TigerBDSM​(dom male)​{looking} - Inch by inch anything is a cinch!
CONGRATULATIONS!
Now the other part of the equation...being with someone who brings good to the table....
3 months ago
Cello Trance​{for You}Verified Account - Damn right yay you! Congratulations
3 months ago

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