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A scent of Woman

A scent of a Women

To smell a women inter scent

To me is one of the greatest gifts ?

When a women gets wet over you and leaves it in her kickers for you to smell

Or hands you them her self when you may not be Expecting it

The inner thought ? of her thinking sexual things of what you do to her is a powerful thing in a mind

But to smell and taste her is the start of what
Desires she and you have for each other

Can we beat what plays on our minds

To take it to her to show her what she wants

How do you Seduce

How do we set the mood before you do anything

The art of Seduction can be fun in so many ways

To be Stirred not shaken

To be give the the thoughts ? of what she Desires is a powerful Image in her mine

As long as you know what she wants and read the book of her sexual Desires and you can meet them and make them true

You may have the best lover you will ever have in your life

We know women can use there body’s to show us what we want

But how do we as Men,Doms,Masters

Show our ladies the art of Seduction

Do we use the mind as sexual tool to bring her to beg for it

Where does it start and how do we make it right for her

This is my way on how I set the mood

For me it come from deep inner place inside of me to show her what Conversation can do

And where do I start this first we must set the mood in her head

All I do is Whisper one word in her ear

Tonight

She will know what the inner thoughts will come with that

This will set the mood for her to know what I will be doing to her tonight

This is my way on how I set the mood

On the bed will be a Dress a pear of kickers and bra of my choice what I want to see her in and a pair of ? placed at the end of the bed

A note will be left to say to be out in the lounge at Certain time

This is my way on how I set the mood

The booking will be set for dinner at her Favourite restaurant

The wine will be on ice the lights will be on low ready for us to Arrive home put her favourite music on hold for when you get home

The booking will be set for dinner at her Favourite restaurant

Sitting the home coming mood is important as much as the dinner and wine and Restaurant

To make her wanted and to feel loved

Mind fuck her get her to want you get the Juices flowing

As you set off in the car to thr Restaurant as you tell her how Beautiful she is

And what a Good Girl she’s been ?

You tell her how Beautiful she is as you run your hand up her Thigh but not to Touch her Sexually

As this she will know what inner sexual Desires will flood Through her mind and body of what she will maybe Expecting tonight

As you drive her to her favourite Restaurant

You tell her of noting you have planned for the night

As you to get to Restaurant you get out of the car and go and open the door and take her hand as you look into her eyes as you walk inside and say are you Ready for a good night

How to to Seduce her over a dinner table you want to unwind her inner sexual Desires in the things you will say

As you dive deep into her mind Exploring fantasy as she sits and wants it

As you sit over the dinner table and Exchange Beautiful conversation of how lovely she looks and how much you want her

As you look in to eyes and see the passion for her as you look deep into he soul and mind holding one hand as you reach over and give her a kiss on the hand

Know how wild it will be as soon as you get home

As you undress her in your mind she will want more and more as the time goes by over the wine and food and take to the dance floor and pull her in close

To Pull her so close to you as you bite her neck so slow not to leave a mark as you grab her ass

Tell her you own her

As you Whisper in your ear Let’s get the
FUCK out of here

As you run your fingers down her spine on
The the way out the door to the car

You walk to to the car with your her arm under yours as you open the car door for her and slap her ass as you Whisper can’t wait to get you home

As you drive her home you know what thoughts are going Through your head as you tell her to remove her underwear

As you pull into the drive she drops her kickers in your lap with that smile on her face you go into the house when the mood is set for a night of passion

As you put the Music on and pour her a glass of wine as you pull her close as you move slow to the music as you kiss her so deep as you unzip the back of her dress so she may slip out of it

Remember it about the Seduction of having her fully before you give your self to her as passion runs high you can feel the fire in her eyes for you and her body will tell you

But never to give it to her right way make her beg for you

As the night moves along

She becomes all you want and Desire

And she gives every thing in return

FAKE SUBS

I hear a lot about women who want to be subs on here and I ask the questions why you waiting to be a sub.

Do you need a Dom to tell you to be a sub ???
As I hear a lot of women want it done in Privacy of showing them selfs as a sub to.
I Question them on so you want to turn your submission on and off like a tap when it suits you.
I have a laugh as it not a thing you turn off and on. Is it
Why is so much Confusion on what’s it is to be a sub.
For me I new at early age I was a Dom it was not a feeling of wow I want to be a Dom I new it was like in my DNA not to take orders from who I did not want to
Or to be told what to do in a relationship
It taking the control of my own life.
I ask a lot what do you do as a sub when you not in a relationship with a Dom. What Tendencies do you keep up as a sub this I find very interesting in a lot of women there don’t feel like a sub when there not with a Dom.
So how can you say you are a sub with a Dom telling you or Reminding you are one.
What do you do Daily as a sub in a non Relationship with out a Dom to be a sub I ask.
As it should be like you knowing you are a sub and act like it.sonr say it about doing it in a Safeway but you don’t have to been seen doing what subs do it more of taking on board of what you think and how you feel as a sub.
I should not tell you are a woman you know you are and act like one.
You don’t need reminding of who you are or how you should think as a women so why would you if your are a sub.
It like you go to buy a dog you come home with a cat as it acts like a dog.
To know who you are you have to act of who you are am I right.
The role of who you are should not stop you from been who you are.
So my question is to you subs who are you.
when you don’t have a Dom and if I was to meet you how woud I know you are a sub with out me asking.
There are a lot of dreamers out in this world of what you like to become or be.
But till you start living who you are you only dream of it.
It like woud you buy a Replica of something or buy the real thing.
It like I always going to pick a real sub over a want-a-be sub.
So I say if you want a Dom to take you for real maybe it time to set up intio the role of who you are.
You can do the things you would do when you with the Dom.
Like look at own Tendencies of what makes you a sub and do them so when a Dom meets you he sees you as a sub.
It like me people now I am
A Dom not because I tell them but by my actions on who I am.
So I ask you subs what do you do to Promote on who you are.
Are you living the life as a sub or waiting to be one.

amalthea​(sub female)Verified Account - With all do respect, I am rather confused by your blog. Are you referring to submissives who are still trying to be secure in their attachment with their Dom? Or those that deliberately top from the bottom? It's fair to say that there are just as many fake submissives as there are pseudo Doms.
1 month ago
Madboy​(dom male)​{Master }Verified Account - I talking about the ones who say there are subs but do noting in there lives so show there are there think it all onns Dom
To make them submissive
1 month ago
amalthea​(sub female)Verified Account - Oh. Sorry you have had that experience. Yes. There needs to be a balance. To thine ownself be true
1 month ago
Madboy​(dom male)​{Master }Verified Account - Yes I need to see her been a sub when I meet her it like do you go to shop wanting to something with out frist swing it work so why would I take on a woman who does not know what it is to be a sub or want it part time
It does not make sense to me in why women on here wait or want to be a sub with out trying to be one on there own
1 month ago
SavannahLyn​(sub female)​{~Umbee~}Verified Account - If you do not provide her a safe place to be a submissive, she will not show you that. You cannot expect that kind of trust and vulnerability right off the cuff.
1 month ago
SavannahLyn​(sub female)​{~Umbee~}Verified Account - After re-reading several times to really digest the content as it was presented, i have an answer. My answer is extremely filtered for tone. Submissives do not need a Dominant to remind them to BE a submissive. They give us a SAFE SPACE to be submissive. The world is not safe for us to be us all the time. We cannot be safe out there alone. You speak so derogatorily about a role you clearly have no understanding of. A submissive is always a submissive, we just need safe spaces, and safe people to express that with.
1 month ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - Imo, What he is speaking of is a person who's nature is to be submissive. Safe or not, they can't stop themselves from some permanent core values that drive their submission.
Safety in itself is an illusion if one doesn't see it in themselves. From the way I'm reading it, you're assuming that a Dom is a Dom without risk or danger to himself. This is not so in many cases. Consider what the dynamic is in Vanilla culture. Twould be easy for a Dom to end up in jail, subpoenaed, turned into a TiKToK cancel culture victim. It's not a Dom's job description to provide a sub his time, financial investment and long term therapy with just a "Hope" she/he will trust and "feel" safe. If a sub is that scared they shouldn't be here seeking. They are unsafe for any Dom to be considering and to that point I agree with the author of this blog.
If one has to be validated or encouraged to BE submissive then they are a dynamic submissive and thus it's only on that person's terms, when they "feel" like it (on and off) and that's fine for a dynamic relationship because the Dom may do the same thing.
But it's going to cause issues with a Dom/Sub seeking 24/7 D/S relationship.
1 month ago
Madboy​(dom male)​{Master }Verified Account - But what I saying you don’t have to do all the tendencies of beena sub but as long as you have them in you as most subs what a tap to turn off and on but to be a A natural sub you don’t turn it off and on
It not doong it ins safe place it know what’s it is to be a sub in the first place with so many not understanding of what the role is been a sub
1 month ago
SavannahLyn​(sub female)​{~Umbee~}Verified Account - No, most subs just want a safe place to be themselves. There is no tap, there is no wanting to turn on and off. You have a fundamental misunderstanding about what a submissive is. When one is talking to you, instead of deciding what they think and feel for them, try listening and internalizing what they are saying to you. Dismissing their words makes you look unsafe, and untrustworthy.
1 month ago
Madboy​(dom male)​{Master }Verified Account - Just wearing a plug or doing a Journal or doing something that reminds of you of who you are shouid be showing your own self of what you are
It not just say I need a Dom to make me submissive or to show me what’s it to be a sub that a weak Excuse to say I sit and wait to be a sub
1 month ago
SavannahLyn​(sub female)​{~Umbee~}Verified Account - A submissive cannot fully be themselves, unless they have a safe space, and a safe person to submit to. It is a part of a dynamic, which by it's very nature requires an exchange. If you cannot provide that safety, you will never see submission.
1 month ago
Bunnie - I understand what you’re saying. I’ve realised that my whole life is based around “acts of service” because that’s where I find fulfilment… not just at the hands of a Dominant. I live my submission, it’s not something that comes from outside influences.
1 month ago
peanutbutterjelly - I had no idea what this blog was about due to major grammatical and spelling errors until the ladies started commenting. If you want to be taken seriously, the first step is communicate effectively. ? ChatGPT if spelling isn’t a strong suit.
1 month ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕}Verified Account - Fucking THANK YOU! I couldn't get past the haphazard use (or non use) of punctuation as well as the BLATANT misspelling of even the simplest of words.

A few different things could be at play: 1) The OP has a challenge that makes for written communication difficult. The complex thoughts are there tho, which is better than most....2) formal education could have been shortened for a number of reasons. 3) Lots and lots of drugs and/or alcohol.
1 month ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - ??PB&J... your butt hurt is showing. ?? But seriously, Ever consider reading their profile and realizing English may not be their native tongue?
Your response is part of what the author was writing about. Being in a conversations with a Chat GPT AI, copy pasted because a person lacks the intellectual capacity to research, determine and express of themself... Being "fake", disingenuous, unable to accept ones own flaws, or present themselves honestly. It's a set up to fail and wasting another's time in the process.
Despite the errors and misspellings, His Blog is authentically him and I understand his exasperation/frustration.
1 month ago
Bunnie - Well said. I figured it was pretty obvious English isn’t his first language ?‍♀️
1 month ago
That Berry Lover​(sub female) - Hmm... OP is from New Zealand, which is a commonwealth country. The King is still their head of the state. I'm sure English is the main language in New Zealand...
1 month ago
Bunnie - Not for Māoris ?
1 month ago
Aradia Nightshade​(other female) - Have you considered that submission a gift at all? A sub chooses who to give that gift to, and most of them, if not all, want a safe place to do that. This notion you have that a submissive has to show the world her submission doesn't make sense to me. In the real world, the sub might be managing a team of people, or they might have children, to name a few examples, and being submissive may not be the best way to approach those roles.

What seems to be happening is that you have decided that your idea of what a submissive is is the only idea there ought to be. It is fine to want a submissive with specific traits. However, it is NOT fine to insist that all submissives must fit your narrow-minded definition of a submissive. You are free to have any opinion you want, but it does not mean you have some sort of kink authority to tell people who they are and what that should mean. You would have been better off posting something that details what you think is the perfect sub, rather than trying to dictate to others. I say trying because no one with a lick of sense is going to buy into your diatribe.

The submissives of this world do not owe you a damn thing.
1 month ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - Nor do the Dom's. Submission is about as much a gift as Dom'ing is. It's a desire to be fulfilled within ones self via another. Thus, if it's a gift, it's a very greedy self servings gift because a gift ask nothing in return while submission requests dominance in return. In such a dynamic neither are a gift but an agreement of exchange.
This is not what the author is addressing imo. He's speaking of 24/7 D/S where the submissive is naturally desirous with and without the dynamic structure.
1 month ago
TwinkleEyes​{n/a} - What is a sub? What is a Dom? We all have our own definitions and understanding of such terms. Mine have changed throughout the years.

I have energy that is both submissive and Dominant. I have chosen a profession in which I am submissive to it and to many. My Dom energy is then expressed in a dynamic. My masochist for the most part also gets fed from my career. These days, only when I experience trauma do I seek out a transient physical interaction with a sadist. In order to deal with the trauma.

How we feed the aspects of our kinky self change over time. It’s called growth. There is also nothing wrong with me choosing to be submissive in my career rather than to some D type. It is how I feel safe these days.

Choosing when, where, and how a submissive is submissive is their choice. Anyone trying to force them into submission is violating consent, as far as I am concerned. Vise versa for Dominance.

Both Dominance and submission are precious. As such, both should be earned and not demanded.
1 month ago
Madboy​(dom male)​{Master }Verified Account - At the end not the day I ask a sub to a sub then to be vanilla trying to be
sub with know understanding of what a sub is and there seems to be lots of them out there and then you got the ones trying to top from the bottom it’s well seem out there as I see lot of fingers pointed at subs calling Doms fake but there are lots of fake subs too.
1 month ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - Agreed. Though I do struggle with the category of "Fake". To me, there is a multitude of different types of Dom's, Masters, Subs, Slaves and a whole slew of pets. ????????...
A dynamic Sub may in one example present as on and off due to Real life circumstances where they can only submit in the privacy of their own home.
Where as a 24/7 service sub may in one example, crave the consistent desire to submit by cooking and tending to their Dom/Masters needs.
Sadist sub
Masochist sub
Princess sub
Etc.
It doesn't mean they are fake, simply not the particular type of sub you're looking for.
However I do agree that some seemed confused by the different types and I've spoken to several that straight out lie. To me, that simply makes them "not the sub I'm looking for or not a sub at all."
I enjoyed the read and hope you find what you're looking for.
1 month ago
MountaintopMaster - Hmm. I understand your struggle, and yet, I think that everything you've said about submissives can also be said about dominants. There's loads of "fake" stuff, and an on/off switch that is flipped to maintain a facade.

So, I think this frustration you feel is simply your perspective on the same frustration that we all feel, sadly.

This could also be translated to vanilla relationships, too; there are innumerable "plain" monogamous, hetero folks who don't have an ounce of kink, queerness, or anything else in them, ...and they are likely to face some sort of struggle that allows them to relate to this struggle.

This is the human condition. We are searching for someone who is "real".

The thing is, most of us *think* we are being "real", and yet we may appear unreal to others. We may have one aspect of ourselves all figured out, but that one thing isn't what makes a perfect match in a partner. There is always something else that we have not yet mastered in ourselves.

Self-mastery is a lifelong journey, indeed. Just as submission is, or any other aspect of character or personality.
1 month ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - It's how you hold yourself in the company of others.
To present ones self in the best light possable.
I personally am a brat.
So you may not always see my submissive side as clearly.
But there are always ways to see into a sub.
For instance if she lowers her head or eyes while in the presence of another
I do get what you are trying to say though.
There is no choosing, oh am I going to be a submissive today or not.
Hmmmmm
If you are submissive you are always submissive.
But one does not always know how to act the part.
Some are lost or learning and some are brats like me.
But we are submissive.
Part of the reason why we have this site.
To grow learn and teach.
You yourself may be Dominant
But you to, had to learn when to assert yourself and when to walk away.

I like where you are going with this though
Great blog.
Thank You
1 month ago
TwinkleEyes​{n/a} - The OP and I don’t see eye to eye on many things. However, who gives a shit about his education, spoken language, and writing level?? To me it goes against basic BDSM principals. It’s judgmental and has no place on his blog of all places. It’s rude.

None of us are perfect and infallible. Please give him grace as you would yourself.
1 month ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - As a true submissive asserts herself. Very well spoke twinkle eyes.

1 month ago
LongerJohnny​(dom male)​{B&C}Verified Account - Generally speaking...
There are authors whose unbridled jackassery I wholly disagree with, whose blogs I nevertheless enjoy reading regularly. This is because I find the incoherent nonsense of one whose self-professed mastery is nothing more than narrow-minded and exceptionally misogynistic ignorance to be more than mildly entertaining. In other words - hilarious! And I enjoy a good hearty laugh at the expense of an unfocused, rambling buffoon as much as the next person.
But comments about him should be directed to him. Speaking of a person as if he were not present is nowhere near as much fun as calling out his lame horseshit right to his virtual face.
Generally speaking.
1 month ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕}Verified Account - Hey! At first I wasn't going to say a damned thing. I was gonna take the high road but then someone else opened the door I skipped through.

I did at LEAST leave room for my assumptions to be wrong. I think I deserve brownie points for that. ???
1 month ago

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