Mind, Spirit, Soul, Body
I want us to talk about those and why do not other people try to get to know you in
This order I ask my self ??
On here it’s like sex and sexual side of everyone must be talk about first ????
Mind
Spirit
Soul
Body
It’s so important we look at women in this order first to last in order to get to know her understanding her, build on something so special with her.
As if you were out meeting someone in public would you go Straight to what you talk the sexual side to someone like you do on here
It a shame most men will look at the body first and start to look at her sexual side before looking at her in her mind and working out who she is as a person.
I no been a Master and when a sub talks to me it all about what’s going on inside her head I need to find out who she is first and Build on friendship
Do you remember the days of the phones you used to have to talk into with no cam
And Dial the number and it was Connected to the wall with wire no pics of seeing the person not Connected to the net
And the deep connection as we had to actually have to use our words.
And have Intellectual Conversations on
Building getting to know One Another
And use our minds to connect with to form great relationships.
For Communication wow I love to bring back
those days and see how people would Interact.
In not seeing someone just talk and use your brain to make a connection.
And spend the time to get to know someone
On the friendship Level.
Is the Friendship level missing on here I ask my self.
Before building a great relationship it like most of us are so quick to jump in with someone we not formed a strong relationship with and it crazy how quick the The relationship Crumbles and it happens all the time in a D/s
As it takes long time to work on what’s important in a D/s it not all play and games
I preach so much about the bond is 80% Mental 20% sexual but at first I say it should be 100% Mental get to know that someone inside there mind
Let’s me ask you some Basic things on what do you know about your sub or someone you forming a relationship with.
I keep a list of questions in the back of my mind to ask them later down the line to see what there truely know about me and if there fail to know the answers you many need to ask your self how well do there know you
And who’s fault is it that there full short on not knowing the question on your self
To form a great Relationship is build on knowing each other well
Would you not say??
Ask your self now how well do you Know your partner
What’s there star sign or when there birthday
What’s there favourite colour
What’s there favourite food
What’s there fears
There are so many more questions you may like to ask but I dare you to write down on who much you Know about each other
Mybe it could be your next task for both of you sit down over a table and you both have to write down as must as you both know about each other and then swop the tasks and fill out the blanks for each other to make a stronger bond.
I think it so important we all know so much about a person and I think it so important that we ask how much does that person know about me and my mind
How important is it to know one Another when trying to form a relationship ???
I sure we all love a deep connection with someone but how can we do it if we not
Connecting in the right ways with women and men
We all think Different YES but we must all have Respect and Manners for each other
But do we have to leave our brains behind when we try make a connection.
Do we just have to form a sexual connection before we make friendship with someone
it’s like men calling them selfs Doms on here and Demanding sexual things from women with out forming a base of a relationship
I talk about Foundations and what is to form them with that connection
When so many of you
Start off a sexual side of the women and when there have not made any Effort to understand her mind and who she is I hear story after story of men behaving Badly of what there say to women.
It’s Crazy on thinking a man will get sex so easy on here with out making a connection in the mind or knowing who she is.
On how there work together to bring a D/s together and become one
why is it most of us Struggle to connect with someone mind first before looking at other sides to them ??
Mind
The true Essence of a women lies inside of her mind.
To know someone you have to read there mind.
To contact with someone it Through there mind
Where is a relationship formed I ask you do you do it through
ass tits and pussy HELL NO
Is it through her sexual side and what there like in bed
come on get fucken real
It is time to wake up and take a look at what people are doing on here and the bullshit games some play
Thinking wow you talked to me know I can control her and get sexual with her and tell her what to do. After the first hour
Just Another example of the bullshit on
What’s going on out there
It like some of us don’t even read peoples profiles or have a understanding why some of us are here
What is wrong with people of today
Is it just this site that says leave your brain at the front door and give no one Respect
And you don’t need Manners as no one gives to fuck
Or are some of us so dumb we think all women will open her
Legs as she got the label sub or just been a woman on this site.
Come on people it’s time to pick up the Rubbish and Throw it out and block the crap that Smothers the real people of BDSM on here
The mind of a sub to me is the only way to start.
Not on what she will do for me it’s about the connection it’s about what’s going on inside her mind and what she needs
It’s about understanding why she is a sub or why she’s on here it all the start of who,
why, where, what she’s all about
Most women have Chaos inside there minds it not about her body or what she going to do sexual for me
So come on let’s start with the MIND
Spirit
This is so important to me of what drives her what Inspires her to be a sub to be the best she can I look at the well being of her self and we look into a mirror of what she sees
The Sprit of someone show us what Rhee feel deep inside there core and what drives them to be who there are to understand someone we must look at who
There are inside them selfs for me my Spirit is so strong and drives me to be Free and be live inside of my own self
Soul
The soul is so important on what she does as a person and feels of who she is i as Master work on her in the way she she doing her homework on her self to become the person she she wants to be the soul of who we are is the freedom of not been at fear of who we are and to say we can be happy with in our own selfs it’s the soul is who we are in side our own shells and we can grow on that with Knowledge and wisdom
We must look deep into that as we get to build our friendship and hope we can full in love with someone soul so there can become our soulmate
Body
Body comes last one how she seeing she what she can do with her body and how does she look after her self in all she does with it
Most men will only want to use it but whats more important is how we show you on whats so important about it the way you see your whole body most of us want to change something about it but we as Dom or Master must show her we love all of her body not just her tits ass and body
I ask when do you spend a night touching her in a non sexual way to show her you Appreciate her whole body I take about a kiss and just holding her with a touch of love in the way you hold her
But I ask all most of all let’s get back to the Basics of forming a relationship not just thinking sex and sexual Thoughts of all women on here this can go both ways.
Women it not the side of a man’s Wallet or the side of his ego Between his legs
We all Deserve a fear go when it come to understanding of what most of us are here for forming friendship and for the some of us great relationships
So I say let’s start talking in the minds with respect and manners
And for Those who do not look deep it time you did read what people put on there profiles
