TO THE BEAT OF YOUR OWN DRUM 🥁
Never forget what your heart needs is so important. Some days we all look at what is needed from within our own selves. Just listen to the rhythm of your own drum, to the beat of your own mind on the music that comes from your own soul. In what you read and your own actions will show who you are deep down.
As I reflect on my life, I start to look at the small things in it. Like a cup of tea and biscuits at night, the talks with my kids on any topic, people who you can talk to about anything. Be with someonewho will come back to talk to you after a fight. 🥰
It seems the small things are what we take for granted, like waking up every day not in pain. Take time out to write down your own dreams of one day doing. Remember it is so important knowing your own self deep down on who you are. Never lose yourself in making others happy when it's, you, who should be the happy one.
It's like a blindfold over the eyes on what you forget to see. It's how far you're ready to push your own self to get the best version out of you. Most only dream of what they want or fantasize what their life could be like. But how many of us push to make our own dreams come true?
What you feel inside for BDSM will be the direction in which it takes you. Most come here with a vision of what got them here in the first place:
Reading a book
Watching a movie
Watching kink porn
But we all came with a thought 💭 and that's what leads us.
I get a lot of people saying that they are lost and don't know who they are. I say to them, 'Let's go back to the basics, look at the things you love':
How do you see BDSM
How does it make you feel
What emotions does it conjure inside
What do you need from it
For me, it is the rhythm of who I am, inside me. It's my drum 🥁 that beats to the one thing that makes sense to me on who I am. The Master in me wants to inspire with what I post, with the way the words touch people in a way that makes them think on their own lives. It's not a sexual act that I need. It's the mental connection, with love, to have her in my arms and give her a safe place where she can be free.