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2 years ago. April 18, 2022 at 2:42 PM

The below is quick summary of two short books written by Sharyn Ferns: "Find a dominant woman "  and "How to write an awesome online profile". Maybe somebody might find some points useful or you may wish to argue in comments why you disagree with what is presented below. Perhaps some of the points below could also be used for the opposite sex. 

 

How to write an awesome online profile

 

  • Profiles are a form of marketing. Based on it you might make her interested in wanting to know more about you.
  • Try to insert stellar qualities
  • Keep in mind that your profile won't appear to everyone regardless your effect
  • Check for grammar and punctuation
  • Ask people for input about how your profile looks like
  • Don't post pictures of your pecker

 

There is also a sample written profile posted by the author in the book that meets the criteria

 

Find a dominant woman 

 

It's a short book offering some tips how to find someone who is interested in domination (not necessary FLR).

 

There are some useful tips on understanding what a woman wants. She wants to see compatibility , to like and feel safe with you. Book mentions to be clear  what you are looking for. Also to have a good profile and also take a note that your potential partner could also review your activity on the online platforms. 

Other tips include treating the person like a normal human.  If the platform used has this feature, also join vanilla groups and talk about your non kinky interests. Book mentions not giving tributes to those demanding, advise on how to start a conversation (such as not mentioning your kinks) and also offers some sample conversation starters.

 

 

TranquilStorm - Interesting topic, though frankly all on your list feels like common sense. Then again, what is common for one might be uncommon to someone else.

The term *Marketing* feels weird, because it holds the potential to be misleading.

What i liked from your list:
- Correct grammar. If there is no effort put into basic grammar when you present yourself, then why should it be different in a relationship? If it is a weakness show that you can work around it.
- Some people are not gonna like your profile/person. That's just how it is and to be fair i also raise my eyebrows here and there. Depending on context every strength can be perceived as a weakness or vice versa, and people come from different backgrounds/experiences.

What i would add:

- Be comfortable in your skin and your profile. Write something you wouldn't dismiss yourself right away.
- Have fun and don't take it too serious. Trying too hard shows and can be exploited.
2 years ago
Minute​(sub male) - Thanks for the comment. I agree that the main posts from the list should be common sense.
2 years ago

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