A safe call is a phone call that you set up with a trusted friend or family member for the purpose of checking in when spending time with someone unfamiliar or someone with whom you haven't built a firm level of trust. You can set up your safe call by following the following tips:
- Find someone you trust explicitly who will be available for the entire duration of the time that you are spending with the unfamiliar person.
- Forward all of the information you have about the person you are spending time with to your designated safe call including but not limited to; description, full name, vehicle information, where you're going, schedule, mode of transportation and any other pertinent information, the more the better.
- Don't just set up one call, set up multiple. Setting up multiple safe calls (with the same person) creates a timeline in case friends, family or law enforcement needs to get involved.
- At least three safe calls are suggested; first call - when you're about to leave OR when you arrive at your destination, second call - made roughly in the middle of your date or two to three hours in, third call - when you are home safe with doors locked.
- Do not use text messaging as a safe call. Anyone can gain access to your cell phone if they really want to and send a text in your name.
- Under no circumstances should you skip or otherwise miss a safe call. It is imperative that you follow through on the number of safe calls that you negotiated. Failure to do so could endanger your designated safe call and result in law enforcement being called to search for you.
It's important to do your due diligence when setting up dates and other events with unfamiliar people. Be sure to confirm any and all information you receive and get it all down either in written form or via text or email. The more information you have, the easier it will be to follow in your footsteps in the case something goes wrong.
Following these steps can ensure safety and a good headspace!
What steps do you use for your safe calls?
