I've said it before and will say it until you believe me. Communication is the key to any relationship.
What type of relationship are you looking for?
This is what type of relationship I'm looking for.
What do you like?
This is what I like?
What do you want?
This is what I want.
What do you need from me?
This is what I need from you.
Can you truly provide what I need?
This is what I am truly willing and able to provide.
I would like to try "this", would you be comfortable with it?
All I want is sex. Is that ok? We are adults after all. Simple
Some of these are hard to ask. And some are hard to answer, maybe because we don't yet know the answer. On the other hand, if you do know the answer, will you answer it. Truthfully? That is the difference and the basis of communication, we need to be truthful to be able to have a healthy relationship. In order to support one another, we need to understand one another. And that will only happen if we are truthful to one another. At least that is my take on this.
What do you think? Can you give me your opinion?