At the beginning of this weekend I was showing a friend some writings I had started developing about what the basic rules of any relationship should be and she told me that it sounded childish, that the way I was developing it was to start-uppish for her taste. That a person that is already in this lifestyle should already know those things, that woman like herself who is already inside this lifestyle would not be moved by what I was writing. In the end what she told me was to pull no punches, to put what I really am out there and ask for what I really wanted to get back.
I gave it some thought over the weekend and wrote a little something. I told myself I shouldn't be scared of scaring away newbies because of my way of thinking and doing things. And besides, the reality is that we all have our vicissitudes and flaws, none of us are perfect. So why shouldn't I put myself out there, and ask for whatever it is I want.
I've been in this lifestyle for almost twenty years now and my evolution as a Dom has carried many faces, but I've never been more myself than at the beginning when she used to call me “Master”, and that is what I've always come back to. I am one of those who loves having someone at my beck and call, I like being serviced when I want and how I want with no ifs, and or buts. I call, you come, I ask you give without asking why, plain and simple. I enjoy the fantasy and personality of the Gorean sub-culture that exists within this lifestyle, why not it is a beautiful way of coexistence for a couple that is willing to please one another as a Master/slave couple. And that is what I am looking for, a lifetime partnership with a partner who knows what she has to offer just likes to be told how to offer it. I live in Puerto Rico and am willing to relocate within some time, I do have my own business and that will take some time to get going in a new city.
My partner should know that I wake up around seven in the morning expecting to be serviced, she should already be washed and in the “nadu” position by my side awaiting my command. My toothbrush and a washcloth are ready so that we don't waste any time and are able to enjoy every second. After work, I expect her to receive me at the door and once I post my entrance she will greet me graciously. After we eat and catch up with the day's happenings and other important familiar and work-related things she will belong to me for the rest of the night every night. To me, nothing is more important than the attention I can provide to someone who would serve me in such a manner.
I said I wouldn't pull any punches so here it goes I love rough sex, I am a very demanding person when it comes to playing and if it was for me I'd have a session every day of the week, yes I know some would say this is not possible but of course, this isn't a regular day for anyone. Right? In my case, I have a business to run and other responsibilities to take care of day in and day out. What I mean by session I just some light play, like with toys or practicing positions, It doesn't mean having intercourse every day, just playing around relaxing and enjoying the time we have together. And time will sometimes run short, sometimes your partner doesn't live in your same town or lives one hundred miles away. In cases like this, it is harder to make things work so smoothly. I'd recommend a minimum of a session per week no matter how far you have to fly or drive. Let me just say this, after the family. work and life goals there is nothing more important than that partner.
I've driven more than five hundred miles not to miss a session with my partner, I was stationed in El Paso, Texas for almost five years, and every six months I would get deployed to San Antonio, Texas and I would drive down on Fridays and back on Sunday's just to not miss a session with my partner at the time. I've always felt it is that important to have that intimate time, a time to demonstrate to my partner that even when we are apart we can always get to one another.
I don't care how long you have been a sub I will take you through every step that I know your personality type, temperament likes, and dislikes and I'll sure as hell will let you know what mine is as well. If you are willing to dedicate the time and effort so will I. There is nothing this Master won't do to try and make things work, but you have to trust me, and I will do everything in my power to prove that I deserve that trust. There are so many experiences that I want to share with my partner and so many fantasies that we probably want to share with each other. Without going into the misconception that fantasies always mean sex. There are so many types of fantasies that I'll leave that issue for another time.
Thank you for reading.
Sincerely, Jay