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a space for me to write out my experiences, as I grow and live in my pleasure activism.
6 months ago. May 12, 2024 at 4:22 AM

I am curious. Do men like to be chased? Not like physically running around but in the romantic sense of like courting. I've often encountered it to be hit or miss. I like to take initiative sometimes but for men who like to play hard to get, I find it frustrating. I want you to use your words. Close mouth don't get fed. I guess I could also view taking direct action or behavior approaches is a way of being forward. But it it also hot for someone to say: "come get me!"

Idk I guess just a thought. 

Please share yours!

Voldemort​(dom male) - Some do.
6 months ago
The Kinky Poet​(other male) - I think we all like to be desired so being chased in my opinion would be a good thing
Great share
Love and light T.K.P xxx
6 months ago
AdamDragon​(dom male) - Absolutely!
6 months ago
DaddyDrago{LilAmethys} - Desired? Of course.
I would put desire in the category of pursuing what one finds attractive, valuable, or important.

Chased?
In the sense of someone coming after me when I have no similar desire (that's what I hear in the word chase.....trying to catch something that does not want to be caught)? That sounds exhausting and fruitless. A waste of time and energy.

Playing hard to get is one thing......but that is a negotiated or consented pursuit of desire. When it is unspoken, or worse yet, used as fuel for a fragile ego boost..... manipulation never is healthy and almost never leads to an outcome anybody wants.

I never want to be chased unless it is agreed that we both desire one another.....then, yes.....we should pursue one another with vim and vigor!
Otherwise it is a recipe for frustration (which leads me to believe where the blog comes from).

Just MY two cents
6 months ago
ThomasVa - “I never want to be chased unless it is agreed that we both desire one another.....then, yes.....we should pursue one another with vim and vigor! Otherwise it is a recipe for frustration”
Well said. Same can be said about chasing.
6 months ago
Veejay​(dom male){BaeBGirl} - I think the question might be, “do men want to feel wanted?” I think a lot of it has to do with seeing genuine effort on the part of the other person. For some of us, that’s “the chase,” for others gifts, etc. I’m not big into being chased, myself, but it is a good reminder to sprinkle in every so often. In other words, I don’t think it would hurt. Just watch for their responses.
6 months ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - I used to be "meh" about being approached, though when a person puts themselves out there with the risk of rejection, I understand the courage it takes to go into uncertainty so I would yield to the opportunity even if they didn't meet my particular desires. However, I've been stalked a couple of times, with one following me home. While some may consider this creepy, at the time I was more than a little irritated. She rushed out of her car and stopped at the bottom of my porch steps, dropped to her knees and begged me to take her inside... Pathetic! And that's how I felt about it while she cried/jabbered a bunch of oshy goshy bullshit that I highly doubted she even understood what she was saying.
Yet... it triggered something most unexpected. I ended up calling her bluff (I honestly didn't think she'd follow through on any of her blubbering) and that took a twist in finding myself fucking her on the porch till she was so weak that I carried her ass inside. She didn't leave to even get a change a clothes for two months. She went where I went, except for work. I bought her a change of clothes but she preferred to wear whatever I had worn the day before. She was awkward, malformed (Normally a no to my standards), bucktoothed (definitely NOPE!), anxious out the roof with these huge-ass doe eyes. She had to take a handful of meds three times a day (HUGE NO) but she was the best Slave I'd ever had for a little less than a year. She was Obsessive, possessive, and clingy af (all the traits I usually hate)... but I miss her more than I can verbalize. So while I used to find it meh or even sometimes rather pathetic, there is more to a person willing to do whatever it takes, than there is to a person sitting on their thumbs waiting or reserved. And let's face it... men are usually oblivious to hints and subtleties. 😂😂 Or at least I can be.
6 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Well Fuck Mr. Heathen
You Beast.... hahahaha
6 months ago

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