At a large gathering fairly recently, a nicely turned out theater crowd, it crossed my mind to see if I could pick out at least one submissive woman in the crowd...some subtle or overt hint. A collar? A bit of bdsm jewelry? Something in an attitude?
For the entire intermission I looked, and pondered. Nada. Not a single hint or clue to tell the straight from the slightly bent caught my eye or my searching mind.
No wonder, then, it is such a puzzle, how to recognize a potential kindred spirit in person, outside of munches or bdsm clubs, parties, etc. Amazing that such deep seated needs don't often show in public. Kept private as desired.
Then, finally, on the way out, I caught a glimpse of a thin, jeweled white dog collar being worn as an anklet. The buckle and little D-ring was the giveaway for me...
I smiled, realizing giving clues is a matter of choice. A choice more often seen on the West Coast than in the heartland, I expect.
Do you like coming up with and wearing clues? Are there some I have missed, Perhaps?
