First there comes this growing awareness that nothing new, or good, seems to be developing during one of those inevitable lulls between real partners, or even the potential of one appearing soon.
It is initially just a sigh, and then some disappointment. Next come creeping in those doubts, little mind-nibbling creatures eating at our self-worth.
Maybe we think about shutting up shop for a while, taking a deep breath.. A sexier picture maybe?
"Never going to happen again" might creep whispering in, the damned little devil.
Then--SHAZAM !!
In the unlikeliest way, stumbling almost by accident suddenly together. You just know. Everything feels right. The sun is back in the sky. Anticipation flows erotically through all the arteries...
Of course the conventional wisdom is that one must proceed slowly, carefully, vetting and probing, picking at each other's emotional scabs, being prudently careful.
Sometimes, though, that is so not going to happen! Your gut just knows. And you both joyously dive right in.
So, sure, be safe in your selection.
Unless...!
Wishing all the seekers here that SHAZAM! moment, soon!