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Longer-Term D/s Considerations

Things unseen often affect relationships. This is a (perhaps infrequent) chance to look at some of them through the lens of a decade or more of online experiences with a variety of submissive partners.
2 months ago. June 13, 2024 at 10:51 PM

….is often to better understand her own kinks.

 

Such a fun challenge!   There are all these vague ideas if what might excite her, but then there is no experience to flesh out what she needs.

 

So, she’s a distant tease with potential exciters, or calmly explains what might arouse, or give tasks to bring firsthand new experiences?

For me, it has to be giving tasks.  As each is completed, perhaps the new subbie learns more about her own desires.

Sure, there’s every chance for misunderstanding, or crossed threads.  Often she simply leaves for someone cruder or in her face demanding.

Now and then, though,  a strong enough bond to survive a real life encounter or two happens.  THEN all the mentoring and chatting make sense, and provide a powerful mutual experience…..

 

THAT can make all the endless back and forth here so very worthwhile!  Even across oceans…

Don’t you agree?

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Hmmm Mr. Rick 😊
I would absolutely agree with this.
Times wasting, and we each much take that next step into our future, in anyway we can.
i would love to meet this lovely lady You speak of.
Sounds as if we should be maybe comparing notes. 😁
Now i'm curious... 🤔
2 months ago
CapnRick​(dom male) - Hi DR, Yes, I’ve run across a distant new sub, way on the too young side of my comfort zone, who wants to know her kinky self better. A challenge providing those insights. What’s your next step, Fly ?
2 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Lol
To follow Orders. Mr. Rick.
i littereally never know what's in store.
2 months ago
ADIDAS - I completely understand what you're talking about Mr . CR. I've been in a long-term online relationship with MyDaddy for years now and I thought going into it that I knew all about myself and my kinks but, boy oh boy! Was I wrong! First off I found out I'm a painslut, just for MyDaddy though. I absolutely love when he gets the homemade electric cord whip out! I love it! If I hadn't been open to it, think of all that pleasure we would've missed out on! MyDaddy loves it as much as I do!

I always appreciate your posts! You truly seem to have a great understanding of what makes us subbies tick, lol. Thank you for another wonderful post Mr..
CR. .. .. I look forward to more.

Ms. A 💗
1 month ago

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