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Longer-Term D/s Considerations

Things unseen often affect relationships. This is a (perhaps infrequent) chance to look at some of them through the lens of a decade or more of online experiences with a variety of submissive partners.
1 year ago. Thursday, June 13, 2024 at 6:51 PM

….is often to better understand her own kinks.

 

Such a fun challenge!   There are all these vague ideas if what might excite her, but then there is no experience to flesh out what she needs.

 

So, she’s a distant tease with potential exciters, or calmly explains what might arouse, or give tasks to bring firsthand new experiences?

For me, it has to be giving tasks.  As each is completed, perhaps the new subbie learns more about her own desires.

Sure, there’s every chance for misunderstanding, or crossed threads.  Often she simply leaves for someone cruder or in her face demanding.

Now and then, though,  a strong enough bond to survive a real life encounter or two happens.  THEN all the mentoring and chatting make sense, and provide a powerful mutual experience…..

 

THAT can make all the endless back and forth here so very worthwhile!  Even across oceans…

Don’t you agree?

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