So, back in college in the late nineties when LGBTQ+ was not as open as now, I had gay friends who would not go to straight bars for fear of being beaten up or worse. So I would go with them to the only gay bar in town and the dance club that had a gay/lesbian night once a week. One because they were my friends and less nobly because if there was a fight to be had, I wanted to have it. I was (was lol) a bit of a dick but a noble dick I hope. Oh yeah, and the gay club had giant goblets of some red 1000 proof death juice very cheap and being a budget minded college student, it was a no-brainer.
Anyway, at the dance club I would approach the wallflower lesbians because you know, they were probably straight like me and just there to support their lesbian friends like me with my gay friends, of course. (I said I was in college, I didn't say I was smart.) Confusion ensued all around, except for the friends I showed up with.
So I tell that story to tell this. Now many, many years later while looking at profiles here I will see an attractive sub and the first notion is to contact them because of course they must have switch tenancies too, right? The one thing I guess I did learn in college was that no matter how attractive I find someone, I won't be changing them. Confusion no longer ensues but the want of the impossible still does.
