A show of hands please, of the times you faced The Angry Dom? recognizing the signs of an angry dominant is important in weeding out your potential Dom. A true dominant is self-aware and understands their own emotions and triggers. Here are some examples: When a dominant is rejected, they become even more aggressive or weak. This can be a sign of deeper issues, such as insecurity or fear of rejection. Another way to recognize an angry dominant is to pay attention to their language. If they use vulgar language frequently, it may be a sign that they struggle with emotional regulation. This is a common issue for people who feel that they are losing control of a situation or are being challenged in some way. The use of vulgarity is often an attempt to assert dominance and control.
And yet another sign of an angry dominant is their need to call out others. This can be a way of deflecting attention away from their own insecurities or issues. It can also be a way of asserting dominance over others by highlighting their faults or shortcomings. In this case, the dominant may be trying to assert their superiority by putting others down. Being a dominant is more than just a profile or self bestowed title. It requires emotional maturity, self-awareness, and the ability to balance control with care. Unfortunately, not all individuals who wish to be a dominant possess these. An emotionally unprepared dominant may lack self-awareness and be unable to recognize how their own emotions are affecting their behavior.
It is important for individuals who wish to be a dominant to understand that being a true dominant requires emotional maturity and responsibility. If you are a submissive looking for a dominant, be sure to look for some of these signs to ensure that your potential partner is emotionally prepared to take on the role. And if you are a dominant struggling with these issues, seek help from a therapist or a mentor in the BDSM community to work through your emotional challenges and become a better dominant.