Good Morning all!
A some of you all have reached out and wanted to see why I have not blogged in awhile. One special Domme wanted to make sure I was ok. To be honest, I lost my groove a bit. But things have been evening out and I thought I would do a bit of writing here.
On one of the other BDSM websites, someone asked what the most important questions is within the lifestyle. While the answers posted ranged from "well thought out" to "rather moronic", what I think is most important wasn't listed.
In my not so humble opinion, the really important question is:
Why?
Why are you driven to this? Why are you seeking to be owned or be an owner? Why did you cross the threshold?
And on and on and on.
Now when I have asked this question in people in the past, they move to quickly to answer. They really haven't looked in the mirror and asked that question to themselves. Or, they know and refuse to identify what it is. Drag it out of that locked chest in their mind and bring it into the light.
Or they simply do not know.
So take some time today and grab a cuppa, sit back and look at your "why". You don't have to tell anyone. Just know and try to understand it.