Because I am retired, I do spend a great deal of time here on Cage and on Fet. It gives me time to indulge myself in one of my favorite perversions:
Profile reading.
Now most of you think I am cruising for naky pics (well naky feet pics, but I digress) when I am really wanting to see what people have to say about themselves and the lifestyle. Mostly I am looking for the reason they they got attracted to the lifestyle to begin with. This is what I call "The Why".
Now most people don't list their why. They want to talk about their kinks or their fetishes. Others want to list what they are not looking for. Still others say nothing at all (this is a visual media, so if you don't put anyting, you get nothing out). Very few talk about why they are here.
Now a good deal of that is they don't really understand their why. They think saying things like "I'm a natural submissive" is ok. They don't explain why they think this. I often wonder if they even understand why they think they are so.
However, I think the Why is deeper than that. I have spent decades thinking on my why and have come to many different conclusions. I started out thinking it was just the sex, but older me threw that out the window. Long ago, it came to me that it was much deeper than that. But that is personal philosophy is now further reaching. Though I sometimes wonder if future me will simply come back to the sex. I don't know.
So kiddies, today my question is:
Have you thought about your Why?
Better still, do you understand your Why?
Discuss: