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TopekaDom​(dom male)Verified Account

Tersely Pertinent

This blog is a place for me to post things to get them out of my head.

My writings give a hint of the way I view the lifestyle, both good and bad.

My projects give my hands something to do, when my writing fails me.
1 year ago. August 28, 2023 at 11:37 AM

Finally a bit of something that attracts me so:

 

While I do agree with Oceanic's premise and Love her  own replies, my own are somewhat different than hers and, certainly, going to be different than the rest of everyone else's.

 

To wit: My Three Demands in Life are....

 

  1. Nothing
  2. Nothing
  3. Nothing

 

It is not that I do not agree with  those that make Demands.   They certainly deserve it, but my view point is way different.  

A long time ago, in my baby Domly days, I was given a great insight from a sub.   This sub had been involved with the lifestyle for a time and had met many a Dom.    So she parted this wisdom on down to me:

 

Be Commanding, Not Demanding

 

And there in lies the rub

Satindragon​{Not Lookin} - I'm going to have to agree with you on this. I usually say there is a big difference between being Dominant and Domineering. The later of which I want no part of.

I like your sub's phrase best..
1 year ago
TopekaDom​(dom male)Verified Account - It wasn't my sub, but thank you. It as a submissive from my old Alt.com days.
1 year ago
Satindragon​{Not Lookin} - Ahhh...I mis read....I still like the wording and thank you for sharing.
1 year ago

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