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1 year ago. February 17, 2023 at 1:43 PM

The practice of cuckolding is a fetish that has gained some level of notoriety in recent times. The fetish involves a man or woman watching their partner engage in sexual activity with another person, typically someone of the opposite sex. It can be a controversial fetish, and some people may wonder if a dom would allow themselves to be cuckolded.

Before answering that question, it's important to understand what a dom is. A dom, short for dominant, is someone who participates in BDSM, a subculture focused on power exchange and sexual exploration. Domination and submission are key components of BDSM, with the dom taking control and the submissive willingly giving up control. It's important to note that the BDSM community values safe, sane, and consensual play, meaning that all parties involved must be fully aware and consenting to any activities.

With that in mind, the answer to whether a dom would allow themselves to be cuckolded is not a simple yes or no. Some doms may enjoy watching their partner engage in sexual activity with another person, while others may not. It ultimately comes down to the individual and their desires and limits.

It's also worth noting that some people may confuse a dom's desire for control and domination with a lack of jealousy. Just because someone is dominant does not mean they do not experience jealousy or possessiveness. It's essential for all parties involved to communicate their limits and desires openly and honestly to avoid any misunderstandings or harm.

Cuckolding can be a challenging fetish to navigate. It involves a high level of trust and communication between all parties involved. It's essential to establish clear boundaries and understand the motivations behind the fetish to ensure that everyone involved is comfortable and consenting.

In the BDSM community, open communication and negotiation are key. Doms and subs alike discuss their boundaries and desires before engaging in any activity. The same applies to cuckolding. If a dom is considering allowing themselves to be cuckolded, they must discuss their limits and desires with their partner(s) to ensure everyone is on the same page.

It's important to note that cuckolding is not for everyone. It's a highly specific fetish that requires a certain level of trust, communication, and understanding between all parties involved. If a dom is considering exploring cuckolding, it's crucial to do so with a partner they trust and who understands their limits and desires.

In conclusion, whether a dom would allow themselves to be cuckolded ultimately comes down to the individual and their desires and limits. The BDSM community values safe, sane, and consensual play, and it's crucial for all parties involved to communicate their limits and desires openly and honestly. Cuckolding is a highly specific fetish that requires a certain level of trust, communication, and understanding between all parties involved. If a dom is considering exploring cuckolding, it's crucial to do so with a partner they trust and who understands their limits and desires.

Literate Lycan​(dom male) - As GiannaRay so eloquently surmises, the definition of cuckold and cuckqueen are sometimes loose but within our community and as a fetish, the implication is that the male being the cuckold is submissive in nature; the female is in some semblance of control within the two; and the other male (typical) is the Bull and considered Dominant. Like GiannaRay and probably many others, I wouldn't associate the term cuckold with being Dominant.

There are plenty of fetishes where a Dominant enjoys watching his or her submissive serve others that are not considered cuckolding. But the term Cuck itself has a broader vanilla definition going back a very long time. Cuckold was the husband to an adulterous wife. The term implies association with the cuckoo bird since the bird was notorious for laying eggs in another bird's nest and allowing the other (oblivious) bird to raise its offspring. A cuck was an unwitting and often permissive member of adultery and raising another's offspring. The implications still hold (in my opinion) that a cuck is not Dominant but more submissive if not permissive.

I guess it can be argued that the term itself is loose enough for interpretation that a Dominant could be subjected (willingly) to be a cuckold. I tend to believe within the community though that cuckold wouldn't apply to a Dominant - male or female.

As a discussion point, I would posit that if a Dominant is considering "cuckolding" as the way I interpret it within the lifestyle, he may consider whether he is Dominant or is switch and enjoys losing control. But I am open to correction if my interpretation is incorrect.
1 year ago
TopekaDom​(dom male) - Back in the day, I was part of a group that sprung from the old Midwest chat room on Alt.com. We would meet once a year in St. Louis real time. In that group was a Dom friend of mine who was not a sadist. However, he had a s type who was a real masochist. Since he could not bring himself to be as abusive to her as she liked, he would come to me to work her over. Now he would sit there and watch and never interfere in a scene.
But I could tell he wasn't all that into it. Never really thought if that made him a cuck or not. Course cuckhold wasn't really a thing back then.
1 year ago

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