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Unapologetically Me!

***No judgment zone!!!***

I post what speaks to me. I like anything that makes me feel. I sometimes have questions or want to know how people think, as a whole outside of and within the lifestyle.
1 year ago. November 4, 2022 at 5:11 PM

Woke up today feeling like I couldn’t breathe and my chest was tight. 

I hate waking up like this. It sets a tone for the day that is hard to shake. I don’t know what I dreamt about to make me wake up feeling that way. 

It’s frustrating when my anxiety gets the best of me and I have to work extra hard not to allow it to ruin my day. 

#thestruggleisreal 

1 year ago. October 12, 2022 at 7:16 PM

I was inspired by my “fan art” to recreate a picture of myself (right) and try something fun with another one of me (left). 

1 year ago. October 3, 2022 at 7:15 PM

It’s so stinking cool when a someone draws you! I don’t know the person but they did a great job! THX

1 year ago. August 20, 2022 at 5:05 PM

How is everyone today?!

2 years ago. November 7, 2021 at 4:55 PM

What is everyone planning to do on this splendid Sunday? 

2 years ago. November 3, 2021 at 5:24 PM

This week has felt seamless! Which is quite unusual, especially with my line of work. I am grateful though that is for sure. 

Just wanted to say that I hope everyone is having an amazing week so far and share my “humps” with you all today 😊😊

2 years ago. October 29, 2021 at 3:20 PM

I had an interaction that started out fine but then ended because of unprovoked/unwanted opinions. 


I published a post about pet names to get others opinions, which were great and I thank you for commenting/sharing! 

My reasoning for this was because I have a certain level of comfort with being called pet names. I am ok with what I consider the everyday “harmless” ones, such as hun and sweetheart. My comfort level stops at babygirl, little one, babydoll, little girl, etc. In my opinion, those names are for when you have entered into a mutual agreement about what you would like to be called or are in a dynamic with a Dom/Domme. I asked if the individual could call me by my name rather than a pet name. Said individual gets partially upset and says that we are not a match. In my head, I was like ok totally fine. Some people just don’t click and who can be mad at that, NOT ME. 

What he proceeds to add is that he can spot a submissive from a mile away and I am not one. He then says I am more of a Domme and should try that route. That is where I drew the line because it was rude and uncalled for. So you based your unwanted opinion off of me asking you not to call me “little one,” hmmm ok. 

Some people just make me laugh

2 years ago. October 28, 2021 at 2:11 PM

HAPPY THURSDAY!

Looking for your thoughts and experiences. 

2 years ago. October 27, 2021 at 6:51 PM

2 years ago. October 24, 2021 at 5:41 PM

Is anyone dressing up? What are you dressing up as?