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Unapologetically Me!

***No judgment zone!!!***

I post what speaks to me. I like anything that makes me feel. I sometimes have questions or want to know how people think, as a whole outside of and within the lifestyle.
2 days ago. Jul 12, 2020, 10:25 PM

Good afternoon! 

I am looking for recommendations on nipple clamps. My nipples are about medium sized and the ones that I have slip too much (pictured below). I would like varying degrees of fun and “pain” when it comes to the clamp recommendations. Please help! 😊


1 week ago. Jul 5, 2020, 10:09 PM

What are little girl things that you get excited about purchasing either for yourself, your sub or having purchased for you? 

I just purchased my first ever paci (fully customized) and am so excited to receive it in a couple of weeks! 

2 weeks ago. Jun 24, 2020, 9:22 PM

So these thoughts were brought on by another blog that I read today and one that was posted a couple of weeks ago. 

It’s been something that has crossed my mind SOOOO many times. I have come into contact with people like this more than once. These individual's lead you to believe that you are the only one they need, that they really care about you, and will give you the world. When in reality they are just telling lies to bait you in. Once they have you they slowly change. People like this only hurt the genuine men and women who care so deeply and love so hard. They are predators and prey on those with big hearts. And then when you call them out they turn on you and attempt to make it ALL your fault. They either laugh in your face or get angry, nasty, and say hurtful things to hurt you even more..... 


We are better off without them, that’s for sure!

3 weeks ago. Jun 21, 2020, 6:35 PM

So, I am part of a sub group on a different platform. There are about 10-12 different women. I thought that I had found a place for me to create friendships and share who I am (my thoughts) with these women but that is not the case. Some of them are very nice but the majority of them can be judgmental and click-ish. The “mean girls” influence the others to be mean as well. They push you out and ignore you. It makes me so sad to see. This lifestyle is already hard, at times, but to not be able to be in a group with other women who are supposed to share your need and cravings for the lifestyle is even harder.

Side note: No one knows about my true self outside of online and it can be so very hard. 

4 weeks ago. Jun 17, 2020, 3:09 AM

I was messaging someone outside of thecage. This was part of our conversation. What are your thoughts on his response? (He does view himself as a Dom)


1 month ago. Jun 14, 2020, 8:58 PM

Does anyone know where I can find shorts onesies like this one but plain colors? I also need plus-sized (2XL). I want to buy a bunch of them and put my own sayings/designs on them. They can be short sleeve too, I don’t really want the tank kind. Any recommendations are appreciated!!! Thank you

1 month ago. Jun 14, 2020, 6:40 PM

As I sit here this morning I process how my week went and what I want to change for my coming week. It seems that I slept a lot more this past week and felt a little more on the sad side. I am really excited about the weather forecast for this coming week because I do have seasonal depression. 

This weeks tasks will be to get outside as much as possible, to spend more time with my family, maybe pamper myself a little bit, among other small things. I am definitely a little things matter kind of girl.... the little things definitely make me the happiest! 

I hope everyone enjoys their Sunday! 

1 month ago. Jun 12, 2020, 9:48 PM

Feeling a little frisky today 🙃🙃

1 month ago. Jun 6, 2020, 3:50 PM

I am SO excited for today! I get to see my MOM. I haven’t seen her or spent time with her since the lockdown started. She is in remission from having breast cancer so I wanted to make sure that she spoke with her doctor before doing anything. 

Her doctor gave her the ALL CLEAR and I am so happy. We are going to go for a walk then have lunch! I know it may seem silly that a 33 year old woman is super excited about seeing her mom, but I just love that woman to death. 


1 month ago. Jun 5, 2020, 3:53 PM

I wake up today in deep thought. There are so many things to be grateful for, one just being able to wake up this morning. 

Then the sadness hits me. I am a super sexual and sensual woman. I need constant emotional and mental connection but also constant physical contact. I crave it so so much! So that need makes me venture out and make decisions that I tend to regret. Sleeping with a friend or an old flame just because I need to connect on a physical level then crashing into sub space after because I am kicking myself in the butt for it. 

I try so hard to break this cycle but it’s not as easy as it may look on the outside, at least not until I have someone who can give me all that I want and need. One day I will find the right one! *sigh*