I found that this was hard for many men that I “dated.” I am not proud to admit this but I have been the other woman/the secret. A couple times, I didn’t know that I was the side piece and when I found out I ended it. The other times I found out and didn’t end it. It doesn’t feel good to help someone cheat and be an option or second choice.
It also doesn’t feel good when you tell someone about your past or circumstances that you have been in and they end up walking away. (I trusted you with that information and all of me, then you burn me.) I don’t trust easily! Yes I may take a lot of work, because I have been through my own personal hell and back, but in the end I am worth it.
I want to be someone’s first choice, someone worth taking risks for and be loved for ME! 