The memories in my Google photos and snap chat just reminded me of my time when I just so happened to have been asked to join a kink group on Kik about a year and some months ago. I’ve talked about this group before on here.
I made the decision to meet up with one of the Dom’s. At first it seemed like a great idea because he seemed nice and knew all the right things to say but when I got there he wasn’t anything like he explained himself to be. He claimed to be a sadist. I had never been with a sadist and wanted to explore that side of myself a little.
I definitely regretted it because he used his depression, frustration and anger on me then called it sadism. I learned my lesson in the sense that I NEED to trust my gut/instincts. I also NEED to stick to my vetting process and really get to know someone before I meet them in person because that situation could’ve been so much worse than it ended up being.
#lessonlearned #neveragain