Online now
Online now

Its The little Things

9 months ago. July 13, 2023 at 7:48 AM

It becomes hard to fall in love with men. Especially men in my age range. 

They send texts stating "ily" "ly" and quick, careless "love you"s as they leave. 

How can i simply fall in love with a real man when I've done nothing but read about fictional men? 

Men who say "I cannot breath while you are away" 

" I’ve never had a moment’s doubt. I love you. I believe in you completely. You are my dearest one. My reason for life.”

"You are my heart, my life, my one and only thought.”

"He says he will never leave her, not in a million years.”

 

The same falls into the kink life as well. Finding real is hard, frustrating and hopefully one day, i can be a breath of fresh air for someone and they for me. 

I guess that is why fiction is fiction 

WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - Yes in the era of the internet and to much prosperity what is brewed is not wisdom, or knowledge, but immaturity and fear.
9 months ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - As for finding one is real, more than just flesh and blood real, that is the real challenge.
9 months ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - Sigh, the problem with books, they are but fantasy.
9 months ago
obsequiae​(dom male) - Comment deleted by poster.
9 months ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - I loved reading romance novels, especially as a pre-teen. Still guilty of reading them occasionally..why? For the fantasy..not so much thinking my "prince charming " will come rescue me..just the fantasy of getting away from the craziness of life sometimes..

People are flawed, [all of us]..*we* do and say things, we sometimes regret and some people will say whatever they think you want to hear..

The "key" I think is listening with your heart..see if people's word's match their actions..it's ok, if "prince charming " is a little tarnished as long as he treats you well. Is a good man and has integrity..thats almost as impossible to find as a Disney prince 🤴 charming.

9 months ago
SubmissiveWish​(sub female) - Yup, sadly the dialogue in most romance books and movies is a farce.
9 months ago
FunCouple{.-Couple-.} -
In the early days, when Kitty would come and visit, while hiking, she took a picture of our legs and feet resting together …… with the canyon in the background.
(I assume it’s kind of like an Instagram pic. I don’t do Social media).
I had it made into a poster and framed, with the text “I like who I am when we’re together” on the top left in big letters.
We still have it, in the home office.
9 months ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - Mark Twain, “Truth is stranger than fiction, but it is because Fiction is obliged to stick to possibilities; Truth isn't.”
9 months ago

You must be registered and signed in to comment


Register Sign in