My dearest friends ,
Please if you Approach someone on here be original. Don't cater to things thier profile says they are interested in. It does nothing for you and nothing for them to pretend to be something your not. Don't waste someone's time by expressing interest only to ignore them when you exchange numbers or move to a different messaging platform. There are several things a person thinks about when your texting or messaging them:
1. How long it takes to even get a reply. This time frame automatically gages whether or not someone is actually interested in you. This also can vary depending on if the person is at work or not. For example if someone is at a hotel, nothing to do but watch TV and they are taking 10 to 15 mins to answer each message they clearly have no interest in you. Don't waste your time.
2. If the person you are talking with cannot keep up with the topic, if all they want is naughty pictures, and to talk dirty non stop before they even get to know you, then it's obvious they are looking for some fun and nothing more.
3. If they express interest in giving you everything you want but have no Desire to know you as a person, and they have made mistakes trying to talk about doing the things you want them to do based on your profile...well you should probably go road runner and high tail it out of there, clearly they are a wiley coyote looking for a quick meal and that's a lot of red flags to simply ignore.
People who are truly interested in having something with you will take the time to get to know you. They will answer and reply to messages in a reasonable amount of time and will inform you if they are busy, but get back to you when they are not. If they message you first thing when they get up, or try to speak with you throughout the day whenever they can, if they wanna know everything about you, then you can most likely assume they are interested.
Please don't waste your time with someone who isn't, and please don't bother someone if your not interested. If you want a quick lay or no commitment go to tinder or look for a profile that caters to that. It's cruel to mock someone by wasting thier time because you can't control your need for a quick release. Do have some form of self control.
Best wishes,
SomonesSoulmate
