8 months ago. March 30, 2024 at 7:03 PM
This article is posted at Leather and Roses and is comprised of questions I had as a new submissive in 1999/2000. Sir Gardener comes from a Christian BDSM perspective but many of the answers can be applied to all BDSM relationships.
http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/gardenerchristianbdsm.htm