When a sub is silent,
They are either over thinking,
Mad as hell, falling apart,
crying inside,
or
All of the above.
You have to be gentle with a sub because they are made from the rib a sensitive creature they need to feel calm and safe til they feel protected.
They need compassion of a good leading hand that is willing to keep them safe
The way you treat someone reflects so be careful how you treat someone you give crap prepare to get shit back they may not be around any more good people are hard to find and hard to replace. Just be their for them be a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear wipe thier tears that all it takes because sometimes we do not have all the answers but it helps.
“Whatever you give a sub, they will make greater. If you give them sperm, they give you a baby.. If you give them a house, they give you a home. If you give them groceries, they give you a meal. If you give them a smile, they give you their heart. They multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give them any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!”
Both ways ,
You deserve a calm love with someone who is good for your mental health and nervous system.
Masculine energy protects
Submissive energy heals
Together, they Create Wholeness.
Growth it shows , They text their submissive. Ask them how their day is. Call them to hear their voice.
Take them on dates. When they have a problem they listen and figure out a way to solve the sub’s problems. They do not argue with their sub. It's the little things that separate a boy from a man. And a grown-up sub loves that. But really for both sides of the stick.
Submission does not mean weakness it means to even the strong speak up use your mind, show your feelings, you we are human both are.
Know that two people are not perfect but it takes two people to come together, be imperfect through the mess but come back when it works on things together. Respond to things with peace.
Dom also needs their sub just as the sub does that is a big difference and a good one. Two people really hold the keys in the dynamic relationship.Don't be fooled can't be the only one you need two for it to last long you need a team work and agreeing and two people learn from each other and grow a bond how this whole thing works.